Is this rape...?

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Man and a woman, both pretty drunk and feeling a bit loose. The guy makes lots of sexual advances and the woman - although somewhat unsure - goes along with it. He appears to put on a condom and they proceed to have sex.
During, she sees something strange on the floor and realises it's the condom... the one he was supposed to be wearing.

She's momentarily confused (being intoxicated doesn't help) and before she realises, he's finished.

She doesn't mention it, and he leaves.

Was she raped?

Yes, because she didn't consent to unprotected sex,	3
Yes, because she was drunk,	2
No, she didn't stop it even after she knew the sex was unprotected,	7
No, the details don't matter; she consented.	7
No, but it might be rape if she found out about the condom AFTERWARDS.	0
Other...?	3

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bfus

8 years ago

It's not rape it's morally wrong though

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RoseIsabella

8 years ago

Am I the only girl that usually puts the condom on for the guy here? If you want something done right...

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buzzybimaybe

8 years ago

that's not rape at all its a big turn on!! infact reading that got me hard!! my ex wife and I still have sex you know and she makes me wear a rubber right well I like to pull it off like when she's not looking come inside her that's a fucking turn on ever do that before

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RoseIsabella

8 years ago

This guy sounds like a selfish piece of shit.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  Most certainly... but is he a rapist? You be the judge.
  
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    8 years ago
    
    Perhaps.
    
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    - anti-hero
      
      8 years ago
      
      Maybe he was Catholic and doesn't believe in condoms. You have to respect his religious views.
      
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Couman

8 years ago

I'm unclear, from this story whether you mean he intentionally faked putting the condom on, or somehow fumbled it being drunk. I think a good case could be made that the former is rape (or some similar crime), but if it was an accident, then no.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  Right, I was thinking he did it intentionally but I didn't really make that clear. But if it was an accident, and he didn't realise, then it's not rape? I agree with that.
  
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Anonymous-Poll-Creator

8 years ago

I don't understand how any rational thinking person could consider this rape. If I tell a girl that I am going to marry her if she has sex with, does it become rape if I don't? If I stiff a hooker that was too stupid to collect in advance, did I rape her?

A guy lying to a girl to get in her pants isn't rape any more than a girl lying to get in his wallet is stealing.

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KingTermite

8 years ago

Does not meet the legal burden of rape. Whether or not protection is used isn't a factor. You might have something if she only agreed if protection was used, but I still don't think it would be classified as rape. Way too many of you let your emotions guide you in matters where emotion has no tangible place in the argument.

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- AlmightyGawd
  
  8 years ago
  
  You are a fucking idiot.
  
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  There's no emotional aspect to this. It's a fictional scenario.
  And yes, she did only agree with the understanding that protection was being used.
  So... "maybe" something but probably not rape. Okay.
  
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  - KingTermite
    
    8 years ago
    
    Hmmm... how unusual, a post on here that omits ESSENTIAL details. Oh wait, that's not unusual at all, it's just like every other half-assed "hypothetical" posted here.
    
    People, honestly, if you want meaningful replies, use your whole ass, these half-assed posts are quite dull.
    
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    - CountessDouche
      
      8 years ago
      
      Just out of curiosity: why do you frequent this website?
      
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      - KingTermite
        
        8 years ago
        
        The answer can be had for bitcoins. Have you any?
        
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        CountessDouche
        
        8 years ago
        
        You bitch a lot for someone who voluntarily committed themselves to this house of stupid. I just don't know why the fuck you're even here.
        
        Your comments come in two flavors:
        
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        AlmightyGawd
        
        8 years ago
        
        You are a fucking idiot.
        
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    - AlmightyGawd
      
      8 years ago
      
      You are a fucking idiot.
      
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      8 years ago
      
      Nope. I wrote the scenario as it "happened" and made it clear that she thought he was wearing a condom:
      "He appears to put on a condom" "The condom...the one he was supposed to be wearing".
      
      Of course everyone loves a sarcastic smartass, but you have to pick your moments.
      
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      - KingTermite
        
        8 years ago
        
        No you did not make it clear that she only consented if a condom was present. You wrote: "He appears to put on a condom and they proceed to have sex." not "The condom...the one he was supposed to be wearing." Nothing smart ass about pointing you that the OP is missing what is apparently pertinent information. And I thought it was a "fictional scenario" since that's what you did actually write.
        
        If calling people names when they point out your deficiencies makes you feel better, then by all means, fire away, but the longer this goes on the dumber you ended up looking. So... knock yourself out, Sunshine.
        
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        AlmightyGawd
        
        8 years ago
        
        You are a fucking idiot.
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        8 years ago
        
        Ok great, well first of all you're a fucking assclown!
        That actually does feel good :) Don't take it personally, it's just a joke.
        
        That aside, the op does say "the condom... the one he was supposed to be wearing".
        You say I didn't write that, so obviously you can't see it, but it's there.
        Hopefully that was the source of the confusion and it's now cleared up.
        
        The point of this was to give the facts of the scenario. The rest is open to interpretation.
        From the facts, I think it's clear that she only consented to sex with the understanding a condom was being used.
        
        But even that's open to debate - this is the whole point. Someone could argue that she DID consent to unprotected sex also, basing that on their interpretation of the facts as given.
        
        If it was an entirely clear-cut scenario, there would be no point asking the question.
        The idea is to interpret the situation based on the bare-bones facts.
        
        BUT, if you would like to suggest what I should have included, then go for it. Please, rewrite the op or just write the sentence/s that you feel is missing.
        
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