Is this ok to ask a guy your having sex with?

I have done a lot of odd things with sex but I haven't actually had sex with that many people. I'm friends with benefits with this guy and have been for months but I've never given a blow job or really seen a penis and have given only bad hand jobs. I want to ask the guy to put a eye mask on and just let me do what I'm comfortable with but I'm not sure if it sounds weird and he's normally very much in charge

Is It Normal?
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  • Being young is all about trying new things that you can regret and laugh about when you're older. Go ahead and ask.

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  • You can tell him to put a paper bag on his head and he will do it, as long as he knows you are going to give him some head...no boy will ever deny that!

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  • It's not that weird and I think even the most vanilla guy/girl could agree to at least trying it.

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  • Me too, Go for it.

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  • Go for it - ask. Being stimulated without being able to watch it can make the feeling even more enjoyable. And you get the chance to experiment with doing things without him staring at you.

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  • In this instance it would probably be most helpful if you suggest this in the heat of the moment and with confidence that way he may feel more willing to do what you want. You'd be surprised at what guys will agree to if you ask during a passionate moment.

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