Is this normal to want sex with a female - virgin

If you want a virgin birth, shag Richard Branson.

I read this question wrong lol. I thought it said you wanted sex with a virgin. Also you being a virgin really doesn't have any change on this matter. It sounds like you are gay and probably want what they call a butch lesbian. Even in a lot of gay relationships they have someone who tends to be more manly and one who often is more feminine. Try going to a town where they have a lot of gay people if you are having trouble in yours. You can also try a "Ladies bar". However I don't understand the translation when "Mens club" means strip club but yeah. Good luck finding a girlfriend. That or the chicks who are slightly boyish.

Yeah its normal I have cuddle buddies that are women I have never had sex with a women either but the relationship is nice. There are some things girls do better than guys! :-) it doesn't even necessarily make you lesbian or bisexual (you probably are but the feeling is perfectly normal). And why would you say you don't have a chance with anyone. You're obviously on this site because you appreciate honest advice about emotions. Don't you think other girls also would like somebody to be honest about their feelings with them (that person could be you) there are many women that are open to the idea of a sex with another women there are even more that are open to having a romantic relationship with another woman. You should tell your friends about your feelings you never know they might be able to play matchmaker. I do recommend having a serious relationship before you have sex with anyone (gay or straight sex) because you're first time is really special you will remember it forever and you will probably always care for the person you give your virginity to. So you want to make sure they are somebody you really care about and that they really care about you even If you know you probably aren't going to end up together because you are going to think about each other every day whether you want to or not. So make sure its somebody you're going to want to remember. Somebody who is going to make you happy thinking about them.

Short answer: yes. Longer answer: there is nothing "wrong" with homosexuality/bisexuality, go for it.

There have been many of these sorts of questions on IIN lately (seriously, like several a week). Virtually all being young females who are attracted to other females.. Being attracted to the same sex is perfectly fine. Have fun!