Is this normal or should i leave?

hi im 20 and my partners 25 we have been together 4yr and have a little boy.i love my partner to bits but hate him to he has a very short temper and didnt treat me very well before my son was born he tries his best and is a brill dad but im so unhappy being with him and dont no why.should i leave him?

Is It Normal?
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  • leave that son of a bitch if he can't treat you right.

    what's the point in being with someone who scares you with his temper and doesn't treat you right?

    Think of it like this:
    I love my Playstation 3. If it starts to act up and crash or stop working every night. I'll get fed up and throw the piece of sh* away. Why should I keep putting up with the PS3's bullsh* acting up every night?

    So yes...leave him.

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  • Drop him. If you stay, your son will grow up in a home where his mother is abused, he'll grow up all messed up and continue the cycle with his own wife. Think of your son's future please.

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  • not enough information.

    Also, this isn't the best place to get relationship advice, but the fact that you are trying here means you are retarded, and so your family is probably a lost cause anyway

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  • just leave that shit faced loser

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  • so he has a temper problem, he might not have realized thats what he's doing or how it's making you feel. my suggestion is to talk to him, the temper problem could be considered domestic violence and they have counseling for that. maybe he doesn't want to be the big ogre all the time but doesn't know how to change that aspect of himself

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  • didnt get it, you love him or not?

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  • it's hard to say. if you've talked to him about his temper, and he is legitimately making an effort to change and treat you better than it would only be fair for you to put forth some effort as well before giving up on the relationship. Also if his temper is his only downfall you might have to except as part of his chemical make-up. I'd hate for you to leave him in search for the perfect guy because everyone has there faults and theres always going to be a few little things you don't like in a person. its about taking the good with the bad.

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  • No, stay forever.

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