I think your time would be much better spent listening, than defending yourself. You obviously came here for input, and when you get it you get all upset by the way it was delivered.
By the way, I left my crazy person at 15 and never looked back.
There seems to be a good possibility you need this relationship every bit as much as she does.
You may love your mother very much, but IMO this codependent relationship isn't good for either one of you.
Get angry if you want, but when you air things on a public forum, you can't expect EVERYONE to say what you want to hear.
I wouldn't say I'm angry. If anything it seems like you're being hostile. So... I'm not sure what to tell you in terms of that...
I do spend a fair amount of time listening. I actually don't talk much in general. There is only so far I can be pushed though. And yes, I do need her as much as she needs me. Probably more. That's kind of the whole point, I feel stuck.
I certainly don't expect everyone to say what I want to hear lol. I wasn't born yesterday. I do think you're a bit insecure though, I don't see any other reason you would act so emotional about something that isn't at all personal to you.
Is this normal or narcissistic behavior from a mother
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I think your time would be much better spent listening, than defending yourself. You obviously came here for input, and when you get it you get all upset by the way it was delivered.
By the way, I left my crazy person at 15 and never looked back.
There seems to be a good possibility you need this relationship every bit as much as she does.
You may love your mother very much, but IMO this codependent relationship isn't good for either one of you.
Get angry if you want, but when you air things on a public forum, you can't expect EVERYONE to say what you want to hear.
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I wouldn't say I'm angry. If anything it seems like you're being hostile. So... I'm not sure what to tell you in terms of that...
I do spend a fair amount of time listening. I actually don't talk much in general. There is only so far I can be pushed though. And yes, I do need her as much as she needs me. Probably more. That's kind of the whole point, I feel stuck.
I certainly don't expect everyone to say what I want to hear lol. I wasn't born yesterday. I do think you're a bit insecure though, I don't see any other reason you would act so emotional about something that isn't at all personal to you.
Relax...
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You, of all people, trying to psychoanalyze me, that's the funniest fucking thing I've ever heard. Bye bye now, and enjoy livin in your nut house.
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Lol. It takes one to know one.