Is this normal? my husband has fantasies of me being with another man

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Is this Normal? My husband has fantasies of me being with another man. Without being explicit, I wouldn't need to have intercourse. I don't get how he could want this and love me at the same time.I'm torn also, because I do want to make him happy, I might even get a kick out of it, but morally..I don't know. I'm afraid he would lose respect, and I might for him as well. Besides..even though I look great I'm 52! I'm supposed to pick up a stranger? Wow. Can't wrap my head around that one! Help! Thanks.

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  • FocoUS
    12 years ago

    Wow. I think your husband has an account on this site.

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  • AngAnders114
    12 years ago

    A lot of couples often fantasize about their partners being with another person. This is normal. But it's also understandable if the other person frowns upon this practice, mainly due to moral issues. But two adults can discuss it thoroughly, and plan everything out; determine where to drawn the lines, who the third party will be. As long as everyone's okay with it, then it really can be enjoyable. Depending upon where you live, there may be an escort service you can contact that can supply the 3rd person for you.

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  • darren3
    12 years ago

    I meant "if". Oh, and he may say you dont have to have sex with this other man but thats what have wants. He wants to sit back and watch you be used as a sex toy. Common fantasy but not sure how many people actually do it. On this site seems to be the norm.

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  • darren3
    12 years ago

    And he will probably want you to do it with a guy with a massive cock too, often black. Thats usually how this fantasy goes. Give him what he wants. Your not getting any younger. The real test is ask your husband if he still wants you to do it immediately after he has an orgasm. I he says yes than I say go for it.

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