Is this normal i lack experience?

66% Normal
9 Comments

i am 29 years old, i have a outgoing laid back personality, i tend to be shy at first but i warm up when i get the person. ever since highschool up to my current age now, i have had no luck with any girls at all when it comes to dating, i have talked to over 1000+ more girls that i am attracted to, but i always seem to get put into the friend zone and or lets be friends and nothing more. i am known to be a nice guy, and i am very helpful, but i am also disabled, i try not to let my disabilies bring me down tho. and my family has a outstanding music history. but more then half the girls i like seem to like my brother more then me too, i'm like what the hell, do i have to act like a jerk like him to get girls, i am not sure what i am doing wrong.. i have aspergers syndrome, epilepsy, learning disability and i am blind in my right eye, and just think i have my license and i can drive. =p. but i work from home, and i do have a income, i dont get it.
I have been told i am good looking and i am in shape too. i have joined many groups online and go to social events, just no luck it seems, the girls that do show interest live either too far away in different states or are taken or married. it's like i am screwed, and i know what i want in a girl, i refuse to settle for less. my friends pick on me saying i am like the tom cruise of my town. i have had one night stands, but it's not what i want, i want to experience a relationship. just sucks i never am even given a chance. even if its a friendly date as friends. just frustrating. i will probably end up alone with my luck, as i been alone for now.

Voting Results
66% Normal
Based on 120 votes (79 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 9 )
  • Ldizzy1234
    11 years ago

    There's probably a lot more people than you think who are in the same boat as yourself. Maybe this just isn't the right time in your life right now. Just sit back and go with the flow. Don't rush things. Someone will come to you. :)

    Also, these girls you're pursuing, who friend zone you, do they know any bits from your past? Maybe they know of your one night stands, and think that you're not serious enough. If your friends call you the Tome Cruise of your town, does that mean you get around? Show them your serious nature. Good luck!

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    2
    2
      -
    • Ldizzy1234
      11 years ago

      Tom*

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0
  • Reaper101
    9 years ago

    This may be mean to say but eh, it might be the disabilities lots of girls I know coo and say how they cute they are but they don't like them or maybe you just act too friendly which is possible

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • pepperanne88
    11 years ago

    Good luck!

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • poopey-eyeball
    11 years ago

    You are a fool.....getting laid is easy.....Women want to get laid toooooooooooooooooo..

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • locknloaded83
    11 years ago

    Yes the girls all in my area have all told me the same thing. but it's rather funny, the ones that are married or taken and have boyfriends tell me they'd be with me if they weren't taken. and no i am not a midget homosexual cultist you ass. i am 6'4 210lbs Brown hair/eyes, White Male. I maybe picky about girls also, but i don't just go after just anyone. i have to be attracted to them or its a no go. maybe i am shallow who knows. the girl has to be White, between 5'0 to 6'0 tall, 100-150lbs, i prefer redheads, then brunettes then blondes, just how i am, and be curvy, like heavy metal and video games, honest, trustworthy, willing to help out, 50/50 with working and doing chores, i like to cook and clean and such myself and take turns even. not too much to ask i don't think. i did have a chance with a pretty woman that was just getting out of a divorce, but i forgot about her when i was into hardcore raiding with my guild on the game World of Warcraft. i just simply forgot about her for a month. never talked to anyone else tho.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • scary_back_fat
    11 years ago

    ppl call you Tom Cruise? are u a midget, homosexual cultist?

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • locknloaded83
    11 years ago

    actually, i don't get around at all, i am actually a homebody, i like to stay at home. i hate parties and the bar scene and being around alot of people, i think i been with 2 people my whole life, but recently the last 2 girls i encountered just wanted to fool around instead of date, and i exclaimed to them i wasn't interested in a one night stand, i am sick of that shit. i don't even care for sex. i just want to experience of being held and being with someone rather then having sex and that is it. quite annoying. then with the friend zone thing, i watch alot of my friends that are women, date these jerk like guys, get treated like crap, then cry about it, and i try to comfort them, and their like oh we can never date you. then go out with another jerk. i'm like what am i doing wrong. do i have to be a jerk too, it is just not in my nature. so annoying.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
      -
    • Ldizzy1234
      11 years ago

      You're probably not doing anything wrong. The right person either hasn't come around yet, or shes there but you just don't 'see' her. Are you a very picky kinda guy? Or maybe... Are you sure none of your girl friends wanna date you? They've actually come right out and said that to you; "oh we can never date you."? Or is that just an assumption of yours, because you're feeling really low about all this?

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0