Is this normal for a guy to have to have feelings to get busy?

It's normal. I just wish there were a lot more guys like you out there. It's good that you don't take something as big as sex so lightly.

Marry me, bro.

BELIEVE it or NOT.... Yes this is apparently normal- I just never met anyone like that, until I met my boyfriend! He doesn't agree with one night stands, cheating, threesomes, foursomes, group sex, and he can't stand strippers/ strip clubs... Yeah, I struck GOLD with him! He is very sexy, very talented, and could be with many girls if he wanted, but because of his views on sex ( he thinks it's over-rated ) he hasn't had but a few partners and he's 30! Sex to him is a bond shared by two people who come together as one. He's old fashion and I absolutely love and respect his opinions. Apparently you and him have a lot of self control and a good heart! You sound wonderful like him and I'm smiling because y'all are real men who think cautiously!!! Kudos :)

right on. Too bad theres not many many more like you..im a female and on the same side. Never had a one night stand or meaningless no strings sex.

@breakthemold dude when girls constantly accuse you of cheating it often means they're cheating themselves. Whereas guys become overly nice to there girls when they cheat(flowers and shit)

I wish all guys were like u.

you are the perfect guy dude, just gonna say, ur girl will be lucky to have you! and hopefully she doesnt accuse you for cheating all the time like mine does... :/ evn tho i dont

I wish more guys were like you!!

Good for you!
That is a quality ADORED by women. No female honestly wants a guy who can get it up for any one and would sleep with anything that breathes. The problem for so many guys is that they are so wrapped up in sex that they miss the point: If a girl feels pressured into it, that's just the quickest way for things to get messed up.

Any girl would be lucky to have sex with a guy as decent as you!! Congrats!