Is this normal for a guy?

I listen to sad songs alot, I am very awkward, always on the internet, constantly depressed (I do not enjoy everyday things), and from me, sometimes I watch/listen to girly stuff (okay usually). Once in a blue moon I wonder what its like to be a girl, but I am proud to be a guy. BTW I am straight so I do not think its normal a bit.

Please help?

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Based on 86 votes (62 yes)
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  • Almost all of what you've described is something every guy secretly does but won't admit freely.

    Trust me you are normal.

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  • dappled

    I've got some feminine traits but I don't want to be a girl because I'd hate to lose the masculine traits I have. I'm not saying I've got the best of both worlds, more that I've come to accept the two sets of traits I have and now wouldn't want to be without either of them. Actually, everyone else is probably just the same as us. We're normal. Yay us! Rar!

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  • kit-kat-bar

    Maybe you wonder what its like to be a girl the same reason that guys are fascinated with breasts, THEY DONT HAVE THEM. Its not uncommon to wonder what it would like to be a girl cause we are sooo different but maybe you can do some more focusing on how to be more of a guy. Get off your butt and do some basket ball at the gym or something, get a book on how to pick up on girls, maybe you can get to know how girls work more if you get to know them more and your focus in this fascination with us. Girls are cool and maybe you relate more than you think. You shouldnt have anything to be depressed about, just follow your fascination with the female. Men actually make a living off of finding out information off women you know.

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    • Ryan556

      I fully agree I play video games with my gf in collage manly because she likes to play them how says girls can't play video games she kicks my ass tho in the video game

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  • AmINormal101

    The only painful thing happens to guys are:
    1. Circumcision
    2. Heart-Broken
    3. When love ones die
    4. Pride gets insulted

    Ladies has to bear more problems and pain than men(according to most women I knew). I wont list them coz, honestly, I don't know much of them and they wont tell me..

    Ask the ladies here.:)

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  • go4it

    What a lot of guys don't realize is that girls are just as fascinated with what it's like being a guy . Sure they have boobs and snatches but they don't have a penis down there that changes daily and does everything differently to their own goods.
    I use to envy girls when I was younger because they could touch all their stuff anytime they wanted but what what I didn't realize was that they were actually envying the guys too for much the same reasons.

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  • Noonesperfect

    I'm a 17 year old boy n also similar to rockhead lol :) listen to Taylor swift and if I sing along but change to male version, used to watch the hills and stuff. Also watched all of the twilight movies:P

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    • JustDave

      You're alright...if anyone has a problem with it, tell them to go fuck themselves.

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  • psycotics

    Your just a feminine guy. It dosnt make you gay or anything I'm the same way just chill

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  • rockhead

    working out makes me feel good too!! even just a few push ups, and sit ups can help your mood and feel better about yourself

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  • rockhead

    i agree. i also listen to some music (backstreet boys AND even taylor swift! I change the parts where she says he to a she though), and watch movies that other guys think are "gay" BUT I would never want to be anything other than a guy. I absolutely love women!! I think they're the most fascinating of everything we have in this world!! and you need to get out and interact with people more!! youre missing out on SO many things!! youre pretty normal, just get out more and meet some girls. AND its important that you find guys you can hang out too! guys you can go meet girls with, go play pool football or whatever you like. If you lived near me id take you under my wing, but im sure you can find someone to hang out with where you live.
    youre normal dude dont worry, just avoid being depressed. THAT is something you should be concerned about

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  • Uzzie101

    You're socially recluse. You need to get out more, even just for a walk. Try talk to people with similar intrests. It's not good for you to be locked away like that.

    But don't worry overall, most lads go through a stage similar to that.

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  • Um how old are you makes a big differance. In teen years this is very normal

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  • Knitpicky

    Being a girl has it's up and downs. The worst part is always being hit on with no respect, having to work hard at being respected and taken seriously...and cramps. It's the same for us girls, too, what with wondering what it would be like to be a guy. It's perfectly normal to wonder, but be careful with that depression! Please, at least get that part checked out so it won't pose any problems for you!

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