How? We start getting close and things are good for a few months and they say and do things that would suggest they want to be with me but we reach a point where things are serious and then they ignore and disappear for a few months and give me no reason. I spend those months upset and confused, unsure of what I did wrong or why they keep doing this.
I obviously can't talk to them right now and ask them because they're ignoring me and when I do see them again they'll pretend nothing happened and like they didn't ignore me or hurt me for the last couple months.
I'm assuming it's fear of commitment considering it's happened so many times but they also had no issue cheating on me and dating someone else during one of the periods they were ignoring and disregarding my feelings and lying for months to me so maybe it's just me that they're afraid of commiting to.
leave without communication there is no relationship.
commitment needs to be on both parts find someone worth your love and time.
if they are disregarding your feelings I recommend leaving them. if they really want to be with you then they would be if they break up with you when seeing other people that is not cheating.
if you two where dating then get it is not just you they seem to be afraid of commitment.
Is this normal behavior?
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How? We start getting close and things are good for a few months and they say and do things that would suggest they want to be with me but we reach a point where things are serious and then they ignore and disappear for a few months and give me no reason. I spend those months upset and confused, unsure of what I did wrong or why they keep doing this.
I obviously can't talk to them right now and ask them because they're ignoring me and when I do see them again they'll pretend nothing happened and like they didn't ignore me or hurt me for the last couple months.
I'm assuming it's fear of commitment considering it's happened so many times but they also had no issue cheating on me and dating someone else during one of the periods they were ignoring and disregarding my feelings and lying for months to me so maybe it's just me that they're afraid of commiting to.
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leave without communication there is no relationship.
commitment needs to be on both parts find someone worth your love and time.
if they are disregarding your feelings I recommend leaving them. if they really want to be with you then they would be if they break up with you when seeing other people that is not cheating.
if you two where dating then get it is not just you they seem to be afraid of commitment.