They definitely shouldn't leave.
"Variety is the spice of life!" that saying is absolutely true because it is human nature to always want something new. All life is designed to grow and change its evolution. If that person always comes back eventually then they obviously want to be with the other person, they just get bored once in a while. So to make things simple, if one person enjoys being with another person, they should find new ways to spend time together and keep the relationship growing.
Lets say I'm the person hurt by this persons actions and I've tried but it's discouraging when the other person acts like a child and won't communicate. I've warned them of this as well, I've put up with it but I'm also not a door mat.
We always do come back to each other but I'm tired of being left. If they really want a future with me then I wouldn't be the only one trying. But they say things like "I've stayed this long for you" and that they care but I don't see it in their actions. Leaving and coming back out of boredom or because you miss the person isn't worth staying for, so why should I stay?
Is this normal behavior?
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They definitely shouldn't leave.
"Variety is the spice of life!" that saying is absolutely true because it is human nature to always want something new. All life is designed to grow and change its evolution. If that person always comes back eventually then they obviously want to be with the other person, they just get bored once in a while. So to make things simple, if one person enjoys being with another person, they should find new ways to spend time together and keep the relationship growing.
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Lets say I'm the person hurt by this persons actions and I've tried but it's discouraging when the other person acts like a child and won't communicate. I've warned them of this as well, I've put up with it but I'm also not a door mat.
We always do come back to each other but I'm tired of being left. If they really want a future with me then I wouldn't be the only one trying. But they say things like "I've stayed this long for you" and that they care but I don't see it in their actions. Leaving and coming back out of boredom or because you miss the person isn't worth staying for, so why should I stay?