You are open and free to make a choice. I'm the first poster here and I can assure you people are going to get nasty with you. You need to talk it out with the people you trust and love. Do not make this decision to please anyone. Do whatever you need to do, for yourself, your heart. In two weeks, two months, two years all these posters will have moved on and long forgotten about you. You are the only one who has to live with this decision. You will be the only one left crying with remorse and regret. The only one carrying the baby, you understand? There are pros and cons to every decision. But you need to make it. Sometimes it's easier to have someone tell you what to do. But in the end, it only gives you someone to blame to justify your actions. Pro or con. In the end it's on you. Can you live with the guilt if you do it? Will you resent your boyfriend if you do it ? Will you have support if you keep the babe, will he leave? Is adoption an option? There are so many questions and the answers are not always right there. Talk it out, get advice from impartial third parties. Take some time to think hard on this and don't be rash. Remember, you live with the choice, nothing will say he stays if you terminate, nothing says he stays if you don't. His life will go on, with or without you. Can you raise a baby alone? Are you ready? Having a baby won't keep the man, or his heart. Be strong, be brave. Don't be forced into any decision. Follow your heart. Good luck
Is this normal? Abortion?
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You are open and free to make a choice. I'm the first poster here and I can assure you people are going to get nasty with you. You need to talk it out with the people you trust and love. Do not make this decision to please anyone. Do whatever you need to do, for yourself, your heart. In two weeks, two months, two years all these posters will have moved on and long forgotten about you. You are the only one who has to live with this decision. You will be the only one left crying with remorse and regret. The only one carrying the baby, you understand? There are pros and cons to every decision. But you need to make it. Sometimes it's easier to have someone tell you what to do. But in the end, it only gives you someone to blame to justify your actions. Pro or con. In the end it's on you. Can you live with the guilt if you do it? Will you resent your boyfriend if you do it ? Will you have support if you keep the babe, will he leave? Is adoption an option? There are so many questions and the answers are not always right there. Talk it out, get advice from impartial third parties. Take some time to think hard on this and don't be rash. Remember, you live with the choice, nothing will say he stays if you terminate, nothing says he stays if you don't. His life will go on, with or without you. Can you raise a baby alone? Are you ready? Having a baby won't keep the man, or his heart. Be strong, be brave. Don't be forced into any decision. Follow your heart. Good luck