Is this mental/physical abuse
A girl aged 14 (a very close friend of mine), thinks she is being abused by her family. We're both unsure on this matter and we're both two scared to tell anyone we actually know so we decided to ask anonymously on the internet.
She has told me that her father would hit her as a kid but whether that's just corporal punishment or physical abuse is up to debate. In her most latest years, she has gotten more 'frightened' by her older brother and father (more from her father). He has slapped her across the face (hard as she may add), and called her a bitch. So far in her life, she has been called a bitch 3 times by her dad (even one very recently). And after the whole face slap and bitch name, she was so shakened up. She had ran to her room and cried her heart out, scared of what her father would do next. Luckily, her mum stopped him from doing anything else but it still traumatises her to this day.
In her family she has an older sister (at collage right now), an older brother, and a younger brother. Her older brother had threatened to beat her up (which scared her immensely), and is constantly bringing her down (by saying bad things to her face or to others).
Her family (but not including her older brother) have been nice to her before (as she says) and she is a teen so she is wondering if it's just the hormones or not.
She did have a rough primary (isolation for years, no joke) and she says that primary has screwed her up a lot. But her parents just say she's overreacting, and that nothing is wrong.
And for the reason her father normally yells/brings down/threats her is because he says it's normally her being a smart ass all the time and that she deserves it. Lots of people disagree but then again, they only have heared her side of the story, not theirs (such as me). She has also told me that her mother has told her she just needs to back down, and stop it with the attitude.
I'm really concerned about her and we both just want to know whether we're just overreacting or not. Whether this is any abuse or just hormones.