a.) psychological help
b.) a life
c.) the eff out of your and his business
d.) over her ugly, effed up personality and
e.) a clue about how transparent her defensive, childish projections of her own self-hatred and insecurity lashing out against you are diminishing her worth as a person in other people's eyes
f.) a bf of her own to obsess/go psycho over and make miserable
g.) laid
h.) bent
i.) all of the above
The answer is i.) all of the above.
Stay away from her toxic ass as much as possible, and clue in your bf about all the aspects of her psycho toxic ass. Make a plan with him to avoid her when you interact.
The attacks against you are not personal, and she doesn't even know why she "hates" you, but it's eating her up inside that the only male forced to put up with her is now having the attention she used to have taken away by someone normal who actually makes him happy. She hates herself and is lashing out at you because you don't, and she thinks she can bully you and try to maybe make you a little bit as miserable, confused and self-loathing as she is inside. Don't let her - ONLY YOU have the power to "make" someone else's actions affect you emotionally - you have to let that person's negativity in first. Any and every moment you feel bad about something she did to you, SHE WINS, and she's not even there!
Fuck that stupid, simple bitch. This same kind of thing has happened before to me several times in my life - not w/a bf's sister, but various haters, which you will encounter no matter what you do, and who will hate you and find something to hate about you no matter how nice you are to them. It's to avoid facing whatever ugliness they have in themselves and the bad, powerless feelings of sadness and victimization that come with it. It angers those people and they take it out on you, when you are completely innocent. She is passive-aggressive and needs mental help. Keep as far away from her as possible with your belongings and your self. If your brother doesn't speak to her or can't help you resolve the situation, try to make yourself more scarce around where she is. Eventually he will be motivated to help resolve the problem and have peace, or he will avoid her and go to you much more often, making her stew in her own filth of ugly projected self-loathing, but now left with *no* satisfaction or feeling of accomplishment from doing her passive-aggressive baby tantrum acts or being able to encounter you (even though she is scared of and quite intimidated by you, obviously) and maybe perceive she has hurt you in some way, she'll be forced to face the fact that she is a lonely bitch because no one likes her...because she's a bitch.
Avoid her like the plague and forget about her, but be mindful and careful her psycho tricks don't get more serious. If they do, even a little bit, get a restraining order and tell the bitch to STAY, STAY (the fuck away) like the obedient dog she had better start acting like. You're a very patient and kind person to put up with this for the love of your bf. He's lucky to have you. If I were you, I believe some type of confrontation would have occurred already that would not have been a pleasant experience for her, to say the least.
Is this jealousy or something else?
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She's a jealous hater and needs to get:
a.) psychological help
b.) a life
c.) the eff out of your and his business
d.) over her ugly, effed up personality and
e.) a clue about how transparent her defensive, childish projections of her own self-hatred and insecurity lashing out against you are diminishing her worth as a person in other people's eyes
f.) a bf of her own to obsess/go psycho over and make miserable
g.) laid
h.) bent
i.) all of the above
The answer is i.) all of the above.
Stay away from her toxic ass as much as possible, and clue in your bf about all the aspects of her psycho toxic ass. Make a plan with him to avoid her when you interact.
The attacks against you are not personal, and she doesn't even know why she "hates" you, but it's eating her up inside that the only male forced to put up with her is now having the attention she used to have taken away by someone normal who actually makes him happy. She hates herself and is lashing out at you because you don't, and she thinks she can bully you and try to maybe make you a little bit as miserable, confused and self-loathing as she is inside. Don't let her - ONLY YOU have the power to "make" someone else's actions affect you emotionally - you have to let that person's negativity in first. Any and every moment you feel bad about something she did to you, SHE WINS, and she's not even there!
Fuck that stupid, simple bitch. This same kind of thing has happened before to me several times in my life - not w/a bf's sister, but various haters, which you will encounter no matter what you do, and who will hate you and find something to hate about you no matter how nice you are to them. It's to avoid facing whatever ugliness they have in themselves and the bad, powerless feelings of sadness and victimization that come with it. It angers those people and they take it out on you, when you are completely innocent. She is passive-aggressive and needs mental help. Keep as far away from her as possible with your belongings and your self. If your brother doesn't speak to her or can't help you resolve the situation, try to make yourself more scarce around where she is. Eventually he will be motivated to help resolve the problem and have peace, or he will avoid her and go to you much more often, making her stew in her own filth of ugly projected self-loathing, but now left with *no* satisfaction or feeling of accomplishment from doing her passive-aggressive baby tantrum acts or being able to encounter you (even though she is scared of and quite intimidated by you, obviously) and maybe perceive she has hurt you in some way, she'll be forced to face the fact that she is a lonely bitch because no one likes her...because she's a bitch.
Avoid her like the plague and forget about her, but be mindful and careful her psycho tricks don't get more serious. If they do, even a little bit, get a restraining order and tell the bitch to STAY, STAY (the fuck away) like the obedient dog she had better start acting like. You're a very patient and kind person to put up with this for the love of your bf. He's lucky to have you. If I were you, I believe some type of confrontation would have occurred already that would not have been a pleasant experience for her, to say the least.