That the point. Shes nervous about it an so are you. But her actions nervous is a big red flag that you are getting played big time. You body is hard wired to want sex thats how poeple reproduce, you want it your just nervous to ask. I'm seriously worried about you man I think your getting played and when you find out it's going to hurt really, really bad. Please do something.
I assume the address you have is one she's given you, so maybe you have her address and maybe you don't.
If you're convinced you do know where she lives, if you're genuinely unhappy with the idea that this non-contact nonsense will continue indefinitely, and if you want to nudge things to the do-or-die point, consider this:
Identify a neutral public space such as a coffee shop, burger place, bookshop, or park near her home. (Not a restaurant, bar or club, since those are places people associate with dating.) Go there at a time when you know she'll be at home for one of your regular lengthy conversations. Call her on your cellphone. Tell her where you are, and say that while you understand she's worried, you're not happy for things to continue as they are forever, and if she truly cares about you and wants the relationship to continue, she'll come and meet you.
Like I've said before and others here have also said, there's a real possibility this situation will continue indefinitely. The more cynical people here think there's a good chance you're being played, but you're clearly convinced (or at least really want to believe) that she's genuine. Assuming you're right, she's currently in her comfort zone and, being human, she'd prefer to stay there. If you want to know what's really going on and if you possibly have a future together, you need to push the issue a little.
the address is correct , i also know where she works and her full schedule and basically every detail about her life , i dont think i will go there without telling her , i dont wanna put her under that much pressure
You can do something and that is tell her something like this
"Its really been great talking to you and getting to know you all this time but it's really bugging me that I can't see you in person. I think we really need to make this happen for our relationship to move forward."
You as to see her, if she says no and doesn't have a good reason, you are being played.
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That the point. Shes nervous about it an so are you. But her actions nervous is a big red flag that you are getting played big time. You body is hard wired to want sex thats how poeple reproduce, you want it your just nervous to ask. I'm seriously worried about you man I think your getting played and when you find out it's going to hurt really, really bad. Please do something.
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what am i supposed to do ? she trusts me i have her address as well but i cant do anything
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I assume the address you have is one she's given you, so maybe you have her address and maybe you don't.
If you're convinced you do know where she lives, if you're genuinely unhappy with the idea that this non-contact nonsense will continue indefinitely, and if you want to nudge things to the do-or-die point, consider this:
Identify a neutral public space such as a coffee shop, burger place, bookshop, or park near her home. (Not a restaurant, bar or club, since those are places people associate with dating.) Go there at a time when you know she'll be at home for one of your regular lengthy conversations. Call her on your cellphone. Tell her where you are, and say that while you understand she's worried, you're not happy for things to continue as they are forever, and if she truly cares about you and wants the relationship to continue, she'll come and meet you.
Like I've said before and others here have also said, there's a real possibility this situation will continue indefinitely. The more cynical people here think there's a good chance you're being played, but you're clearly convinced (or at least really want to believe) that she's genuine. Assuming you're right, she's currently in her comfort zone and, being human, she'd prefer to stay there. If you want to know what's really going on and if you possibly have a future together, you need to push the issue a little.
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the address is correct , i also know where she works and her full schedule and basically every detail about her life , i dont think i will go there without telling her , i dont wanna put her under that much pressure
You can do something and that is tell her something like this
"Its really been great talking to you and getting to know you all this time but it's really bugging me that I can't see you in person. I think we really need to make this happen for our relationship to move forward."
You as to see her, if she says no and doesn't have a good reason, you are being played.