It used to until I accepted women as how they are. Every man goes sure a period of bitterness when he learns the nature of attraction, but it's important to suffer through it.
It seems more like he actually knows what he is talking about. Any man in his 30's and above, that has at least a reasonable amount of experience with women will agree with this. Women aren't genetically programmed to return the same amount of love to men that men provide to women. It's all a myth and a lie that women are the more "sensitive" gender.
Women are genetically programmed to carefully watch interactions between males so that when a new alpha emerges or takes over more social status they immediately are attracted to that. Sure there are exceptions to this, but this is the rule of thumb. Exceptions only reinforce the rule. Women are programmed to do this, they can't be any different. Most don't even realize when they do it and I almost certainly will get downvoted for saying this.
It's why so many men are confused that when they "settled down" with marriage or stopped being competitive in regards to attention to other women and solely gave their attention to a single woman, that same single woman, more often than not rebuffed them, especially so if the woman was still pretty/young. When you hear of a woman complaining "that the spark is gone", this is what she is referring to.
This is all programmed in our DNA, it's impossible to change it. Most people never even realize they behave this way.
Is this fucked up?
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does that bother you in some way?
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It used to until I accepted women as how they are. Every man goes sure a period of bitterness when he learns the nature of attraction, but it's important to suffer through it.
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"I accepted women as how they are"
Sounds like you haven't finished "suffer[ing] through it" yet, but have found a comfortable resting place. Good luck on completing your journey sir
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It seems more like he actually knows what he is talking about. Any man in his 30's and above, that has at least a reasonable amount of experience with women will agree with this. Women aren't genetically programmed to return the same amount of love to men that men provide to women. It's all a myth and a lie that women are the more "sensitive" gender.
Women are genetically programmed to carefully watch interactions between males so that when a new alpha emerges or takes over more social status they immediately are attracted to that. Sure there are exceptions to this, but this is the rule of thumb. Exceptions only reinforce the rule. Women are programmed to do this, they can't be any different. Most don't even realize when they do it and I almost certainly will get downvoted for saying this.
It's why so many men are confused that when they "settled down" with marriage or stopped being competitive in regards to attention to other women and solely gave their attention to a single woman, that same single woman, more often than not rebuffed them, especially so if the woman was still pretty/young. When you hear of a woman complaining "that the spark is gone", this is what she is referring to.
This is all programmed in our DNA, it's impossible to change it. Most people never even realize they behave this way.
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So you're saying that the columbine shooters were "alpha"? how come most women aren't attracted to them, then?