Is this "friendship" ok?

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we are all just out of h.s. and my friend, has decided to join the air force. this is were the controversy comes in to play.now that hes gone for the moment, his gf is still here. we are both friends. and i kno that i would NOT want to do anything to hurt my friend. she has been missing him and sometimes we will go into the woods and take walks, but nothing happens. im just curious if this kind of relationship is normal? or acceptable?

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Based on 79 votes (63 yes)
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  • guitaranddrugs
    14 years ago

    Yes its normal. Don't fuck her and its appropriate.

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  • AgentHitGirl
    10 years ago

    Yeah it sounds like your her comforting her by doing that BUT DON'T FUCKING KISS/FUCK HER!!!

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Well you are her friend, and the closest thing to her bf who she misses. You aren't doing anything wrong. But you a sensible enough to feel the potential for something to develop that you would rather not.

    I think this is normal. Besides, she's your friend. You will need to be vigilant and exercise judgement if it starts becoming more than that.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Yeah, just dont get with her, shes goin threw a bad time i guess

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  • niconicodouga
    14 years ago

    It's normal but you have to make sure she really knows nothing is going to happen between you both.

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  • andrian007
    14 years ago

    The solution is simpler than you think: if you feel uncomfortable doing something, then don't do it. If you feel that taking a walk in the forest is a little too "intimate" for your taste, then you need to tell her that you much prefer to talk over coffee at the local Starbucks or something.

    The other thing is you need to think about how you feel towards her. If you can keep it strictly platonic, good for you, but if not, there could be trouble with your army friend. I'm a conservative man and I wouldn't take away my friend's girl, but if your feelings are strong enough, you could always go for it.

    On the other hand, you might just be a little paranoid. She might be cool with the whole thing. For some girls, a walk in the woods alone with a boy is a very big thing while for others, it's no big deal at all.

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  • Orhlixyone
    14 years ago

    It's normal but it's also normal that she will eventually develop strong feelings for you.

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  • mrsphan99
    12 years ago

    Don't do it jackass

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    • WhiteWidow
      7 years ago

      It's fine if it doesn't lead to anything.

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