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I have this friend who i communicate with online only but we're closer than just online friends and we know each other very well. Anyway when my friend had her finals week i texted her "Good luck" texts every night before an exam to show support and care. Do you think it is nice if it was done to you or would you find it too clingy and weird?
| It is nice and shows that you care. | 36 | |
| It is weird and clingy. | 7 |
Everyone deserves a confidence boost. She would have a serious problem to want to shut you out (if she did).
April 3rd: Good luck!
April 4th: Good luck!
April 5th: Good luck!
April 6th: Good luck!
April 7th: SHUT DA FUCK UP!
I don't go checking she told me her exams schedule so i already know it without looking for it.
It's a bit much in my opinion. Kinda feels like you're creeping. I'd be comfortable with one 'good luck' at the start of finals.
its most likely this dudes own insecurities about thinking he done something wrong when she doesnt respond
this is the problem with online chatting, as if the person doesnt respond your mind can go crazy (with some people) wondering what went wrong
just be patient i say. you gotta be patient, people are busy with life
you gotta wait :)
i dont see how anyone saying "good luck" could ever be viewed as a bad thing lol
i can see if your sending a person a message like
"i wanna suck your toes!" *slobber slobber* or something like that
but a social pat on the back for school is hardly anything to go crazy over lol
they know each other very well though
some people like you may find it too clingy yes
but like i said, each has their own comfort level
maybe like he said, hes doing it because he cares, not because hes trying to be a creep?
all depends on how you look at it
Not creepy at all because they know each other very well! It would be only weird if they weren't close because then it's kinda like spamming. If he didn't know her very well then a one off "Good luck" in the beginning is a nice way to express interest and care towards someone you're trying to get to know imo :)