Is this borderline disgusting/illegal?

It's not gross or "the p-word" since you're both consenting adults. You've got nothing to worry about.

What's disgusting is that you think this is disgusting

That's only a 9 year age difference. Hell, when I was 35, I loved 51 year old women.

You people think you are SO smart, avoiding the word "Pepsi". THAT is the "P" word. I do not know if we can say Pepsi on here but ask me how I know it is the P word?
Well, for you younger folks, Coke used to have this advertising thing called Max Headroom. The older members know who he was. Max called Pepsi "the p word"

YEP, the P word is pepsi, here is proof -

https://i.pinimg.com/originals/e8/c2/35/e8c23507be4c768d93c31e1110d35fec.jpg

And s commercial -

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n9mfys8mZTI

First person I had sex with was almost 10 years older than me.

What’s the problem you’re both adults

No. You're both adults, what would be gross about it?

It's normal, don't worry about it. You're adults. It's all good. If you love each other - have fun.

That poor man, someone call the police

it's normal.

As long as you're both consenting adults, I believe it's fine.

What? No it's not disgusting or illegal 23 and 32 is the age of adults so it's ok.

Two things.
1. That is not disgusting.
2. This website does allow the p-word, along with far worse words.

There's nowhere in the world where twenty-three is below the age of sexual consent, so the "p-word" is totally irrelevant.

My wife is eleven years younger than me. When we met, I was in my early fifties and she was in her early forties. Do you think that was disgusting? If not, why should you even wonder if you dating a guy only nine years younger than yourself might be disgusting?

What would truly be disgusting would be if you and your guy allow yourself to get so hung-up on your age difference and the attitudes of ignorant, jealous people who disapprove of you two solely on the basis of your relative ages that you split up.

Why on earth would you think this is illegal?

You can say the p word, just not in the question title

You came to the wrong site.

I don't think it is but I have very open standards age-wise. I dated one exactly half my age and another almost twice my age.

Why isn't a 23 year old allowed to sleep with another adult? Do they have learning difficulties or something? Unless there is more to this I think you are weird for worrying about this.

Ha illegal. Sure bro.

A rule is you take your age, half it, add 7, and that is the minimum age. So, your ages are normal. However, I have always had a thing for older women.

Si

This is fucking retarded. It's not normal, but it's not pedophilia at all. If someone thinks this is pedophilia then they've got the IQ of a potato.

Right now, there are 22 year olds dating 90+ years olds. As long as people are happy and consenting then let them live how they want. No one is being hurt.

The grand majority of guys of any age is intrested in 20 yo women.

When I was a young divorcée in my early thirties the guys who were most interested in me were always in their early twenties.

I dated a 32 year old girl when I was even younger than 22. It felt weird.

Im 30 and most girls who show an interest in me are in their early 20s