Is this an acceptable behavior during a date?

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  • Last time a person tried inviting themselves in my home I let them, they proceeded to try and kiss me while his newborn was sitting on my floor staring at us (I hate children) and I barley even knew the dude! Plus he took one look at my relatively expensive bed that I'm very fond of and was like well have to do something about that.

    It was at that moment I knew I had zero interest in him. Plus when he tried to kiss me my first reaction was dodge! I latterly said nope without even thinking about it.

    If I learned anything about this moment its that if someone try inviting themselves in thatbearly in a relationship they ain't worth it.

    Took my boyfriend forever to learn that he's welcome over anytime (I'm like a stage 4 clinger lol) before that he wouldn't go near my place or make any suggestions about it unless I invited him in first.

    Live and learn i guess. Its always worth waiting for a good one

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    • I fully agree with you on this!

      While she had known me for quite some time online, she certainly didn’t know me in person (especially since she didn’t even make an effort to get to know me during my visit).

      She certainly is bold and fearless, as there are many risks with being a girl in an unknown guy’s apartment. Not all guys are sensible, responsible and conservative like me.

      Besides knowing that she would boss me around for an entire week, I also have a feeling that she’d act like a spoiled brat and mess up my apartment.

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      • Like 9/10 likely she would treat your place like a hotel. Not to mentiom you know she wouldn't even put out. Im not saying sex is everything but if your doing shit like that i mean throw a dog a bone

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        • She’d definitely treat it as a hotel with free food and private chauffeur.

          I wouldn’t put out with a girl I just met anyway. I’m not that sort of guy. ☺️

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          • Haha well thats good, I used to say the same then with my guy I wanted him before our first date haha. Its weird but I was just like yesssss with him. Hard to describe the feeling. But seriously good for you. Its better to be patient. Some girls are sketchy as heck to.

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    • Ugh, sounds so seedy. They could have at least got a fucking babysitter.

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      • right!? Less than ideal without a doubt. Kid had pretty eyes ill give it that though

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