Is this accepted or normal i try using objects te find out?

I am not completely gay but many of my friends are. The only items I have tried has been masturbating with a few friends and that last friend my temptation to suck finally took over and I did. I loved it. Yet when being anal bred is just too far for me. I have taken fingers and even tried broom handle, banana and zuccini. I want it but haven't done it with another man. Yet my consideration has grasp onme and I think I will so as long he wears a condom. Is experimenting this way normal?