Is this a normal situation to be in?

my aunt was supposed to get married to the guy who was to be my uncle on july 23rd you have to understand they were going out for 6 years and they were best friends. he had cancer for the 3rd time and was on an experimental drug. 1 week before the wedding they were going to get the marriage license and change his will. just before they left he collapsed and died 8 hours later. now since the will hasn't been changed, his sister is the executor of the will. she never liked my aunt and saw her as "stealing [Him] away from them". she took over and emptied their bank account (it was in his name but they both had money in there). she owns all his land. the only thing my aunt has is the house. there was even this vintage red tractor that they both went down to the states to pick up that she wanted for the memories. his sister went and is going to sell it. now they're trying to flush her out of the house by turning the small town she lives in against her. she is emotionally destroyed and they don't care. they went against her brother's wishes just so she could be filthy rich (theres about 700 000 dollars tied up there). and all i want to do is give them a piece of my mind.

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  • Verstehen

    Just saying. That visualization helped me a lot at my dad's funeral. His wife was pure evil throughout the process, and made it very hard for me, my mother and my grandmother. I just detached myself from her and her drama and she was forced to stop behaving that way because it made her look awful, since I was being so nice and she was still being such a witch.

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  • Ramit10

    Try to talk to a lawyer.

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  • Verstehen

    It's a normal situation, but it's not at all an acceptable on. Grief does CRAZY MESSED UP THINGS TO PEOPLE. If his sister felt your aunt was taking him away from their family, she probably has a DEEP resentment for her because she feels she lost that last bit of time with him. Very, very painful. Everyone thinks their grief is bigger than anyone else's. She can't see past herself. Your aunt should contact a lawyer and remain GRACEFUL. Anger and resentment and petty fighting will help nothing in the wake of death. Tell her this: When she doesn't like what she sees, she should imagine that she floats above everyone else rather than walking. This way she'll be able to see the pettiness from way up high, and move over it unscathed.

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  • iluvzelda

    I was in a similar situation when my dad died. Talk to a lawyer as soon as you can. I wish I did.

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  • ICeicebaby7492

    it sounds like your aunt and needs to shove her foot up that bitch's ass and tell her to back the fuck off

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  • bigtoy

    Bitch. Hope SHE gets cancer and dies - she deserves it. Seriously though, people like this never do well. As much as it seems like she has got the lion's share and it's all very unfair, life is full of twists and turns - you never know quite what to expect. How many bank robbers have done well for themselves and had a happy life? Life just doesn't work like that. Have faith in God.

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  • bigtoy

    Bitch. Hope SHE gets cancer and dies - she deserves it.

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  • Treez

    Uh oh

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  • l3re

    That lady is evil

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  • plainsight90

    WOW what a disgustingly cruel human being.

    Karma will take care of it.

    That's the good thing about life...the tables are always turning. She might get her money now, but something else is gonna come around and bite her in the ass.

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  • joybird

    There's nothing your aunt can do :o( He should've made the will years ago when he was first diagnosed, in fact she's lucky to get the house and that may only be because of a joint mortgage.

    The love of money always brings out the worst in people and his sister has no love for your aunt.

    I know of 2 brothers whose mom died recently. She had a will dividing everything equally but one wanted the house. Anyhow, one of the brothers rang the family lawyer just to inform him his mom had died and the lawyer said, "Has the fighting started yet?" And there were only two of them, imagine if she had a lot of kids.

    This is how lawyers make their money, tell your aunt not to bother unless she can prove she paid for the tractor or other things!

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  • thats mean of them

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  • Truth is stranger than fiction

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