Jen's spot on. Despite your obvious understanding of his insecurity and your attempts at trying to overcome it, you realise that it cannot continue as it is now.
Either it'll all blow up one day when something happens to trigger his insecurity or you'll walk out because you're being completely smothered.
If you think you can. and want to, make something of this relationship, you need to discuss it penly and frankly with him.
Make sure he knows that if he continues to try to control you for fear of losing you, he will lose you anyway.
Is this a normal "relationship"?
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Jen's spot on. Despite your obvious understanding of his insecurity and your attempts at trying to overcome it, you realise that it cannot continue as it is now.
Either it'll all blow up one day when something happens to trigger his insecurity or you'll walk out because you're being completely smothered.
If you think you can. and want to, make something of this relationship, you need to discuss it penly and frankly with him.
Make sure he knows that if he continues to try to control you for fear of losing you, he will lose you anyway.
And be strong.