Your husband sounds like he still has an inner child and now he has simply found a close friend of similar interests in your daughter's friend. That, or he's treading close to pedophilia; perhaps without knowing so (Almost everything spoke of a friendly father-daughter sort of relationship except the "Maybe we can find a way to cuddle with no one getting upset" is very worrying to read. Why would cuddling upset others unless it's a type of cuddling that happens behind closed doors? Very worrying, indeed). I don't know your husband or your daughter's friend and their relationship well enough to make a sound opinion. I suggest talking reasonably and calmly about it with your husband again. Maybe talk about it with the girl's parents? Communication in marriage is key after all.
Is this a normal and appropriate friendship?
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Your husband sounds like he still has an inner child and now he has simply found a close friend of similar interests in your daughter's friend. That, or he's treading close to pedophilia; perhaps without knowing so (Almost everything spoke of a friendly father-daughter sort of relationship except the "Maybe we can find a way to cuddle with no one getting upset" is very worrying to read. Why would cuddling upset others unless it's a type of cuddling that happens behind closed doors? Very worrying, indeed). I don't know your husband or your daughter's friend and their relationship well enough to make a sound opinion. I suggest talking reasonably and calmly about it with your husband again. Maybe talk about it with the girl's parents? Communication in marriage is key after all.