I think it could be a normal thing. If, say, it was your sons male friend and your husband had geeky stuff in common, that would be fine. If the game night would be 2 fathers and sons, no problem. It's like, why would it be so much different with a female?
I do understand some things make you uncomfortable though, and no matter if there is danger or not, those things should be addressed...and that is the physical closeness they seek. Cuddling or sitting on his lap are simply things that don't seem approbiate, there's nothing about being upset, it simply makes you uncomfortable and you'd prefer if he did not do that.
Unless there is more reason, i don't think you have to be afraid of something, but you should still have that talk.
Is this a normal and appropriate friendship?
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I think it could be a normal thing. If, say, it was your sons male friend and your husband had geeky stuff in common, that would be fine. If the game night would be 2 fathers and sons, no problem. It's like, why would it be so much different with a female?
I do understand some things make you uncomfortable though, and no matter if there is danger or not, those things should be addressed...and that is the physical closeness they seek. Cuddling or sitting on his lap are simply things that don't seem approbiate, there's nothing about being upset, it simply makes you uncomfortable and you'd prefer if he did not do that.
Unless there is more reason, i don't think you have to be afraid of something, but you should still have that talk.