Do't listen to these people. I agree that it isn't a healthy relationship but its not like she's a terrible person. She likes to talk, you like to listen. I relate to you a lot, I have a friend like this. She's a talker and I'm not and she always talks about herself and her own problems and don't ask about mine, but if I wanted her to know, she'd know. Its just hard for me to talk about myself, thats MY fault not hers. So I feel like its more your fault then hers but thats NOT A BAD THING so don't think that. If you want her to know something, you have to muster up the courage to tell her, thats on you not her. If she still wants to talk about herself, thats when it becomes a severely unhealthy relationship but for now you're fine. Though you should know my friend and I aren't as close as we were before, we just dont have that much in common, so be aware it could happen...
Is this a healthy relationship between me and my friend?
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Do't listen to these people. I agree that it isn't a healthy relationship but its not like she's a terrible person. She likes to talk, you like to listen. I relate to you a lot, I have a friend like this. She's a talker and I'm not and she always talks about herself and her own problems and don't ask about mine, but if I wanted her to know, she'd know. Its just hard for me to talk about myself, thats MY fault not hers. So I feel like its more your fault then hers but thats NOT A BAD THING so don't think that. If you want her to know something, you have to muster up the courage to tell her, thats on you not her. If she still wants to talk about herself, thats when it becomes a severely unhealthy relationship but for now you're fine. Though you should know my friend and I aren't as close as we were before, we just dont have that much in common, so be aware it could happen...