After talking to her you'll already find out if she's warming up to you and may be receptive. You'll also find out if you have any shared interests. Then you can ask her to a shared interest event or just ask if she'd like to continue your conversation out sometime, like coffee, a walk or see what she suggests. Like I said, it's not a race. Do what feels natural, not forced. It comes from within. What your feeling at a given moment. There are times in life when NOT escalating the situation is what feels the most un-natural and or awkward.
There is no "plan" that works with all women. They aren't like a one-size-fits-all. That's the whole point of getting to know them individually. Jus like men, but with vaginas.
Yeah everyone says natural but a pot of times what feels natural is adding for sex once she shows interest. In the past with women I don't think I ever got to a point where it would be awkward not to escalate.
If you spend more time just making friends with women and hanging out with women, sooner or later one you only see as a friend will be interested in more and you can then decide what you want to do. There really are no sure-fire answers to dating situations. It's all hit & miss and what feels right for you.
Is this a good way to approach women or is it too creepy?
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After talking to her you'll already find out if she's warming up to you and may be receptive. You'll also find out if you have any shared interests. Then you can ask her to a shared interest event or just ask if she'd like to continue your conversation out sometime, like coffee, a walk or see what she suggests. Like I said, it's not a race. Do what feels natural, not forced. It comes from within. What your feeling at a given moment. There are times in life when NOT escalating the situation is what feels the most un-natural and or awkward.
There is no "plan" that works with all women. They aren't like a one-size-fits-all. That's the whole point of getting to know them individually. Jus like men, but with vaginas.
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Yeah everyone says natural but a pot of times what feels natural is adding for sex once she shows interest. In the past with women I don't think I ever got to a point where it would be awkward not to escalate.
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If you spend more time just making friends with women and hanging out with women, sooner or later one you only see as a friend will be interested in more and you can then decide what you want to do. There really are no sure-fire answers to dating situations. It's all hit & miss and what feels right for you.
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I know it's just that that's precisely my problem. What feels natural is only really sex. I think I need more practice.