Well sir, I find her very, very attractive but shes not most people's type. Most guys don't like girls as fat as her but I do. I'm 6'4" 245 pounds of mostly lean muscle but I haven't been pursuing sex too aggressively because of how busy I am with school and working out. I could go to parties and get laid a lot more which I did last year but that would mess up my sleep. So I made a tradeoff by quiting college parties and instead use a lazier method in tinder. I get way more tinder matches than all my friends and most other guys by the sound of it so I know I am pretty attractive to most women.
there's something gross about the way you write that though.
leagues aren't a thing; if you're attracted to her and she's attracted to you, who's to say she isn't out of your league.
and before you come after me calling me jealous (because I really don't wanna fight man) I am clocking in with a very similar physique so i understand what you're saying. I just think you're going about the concept wrong. If you find her attractive that's that. counting your matches doesn't affect the fact that out of all of them, you're thinking about her.
to answer your question more directly though, there's nothing wrong with telling someone you're only looking for casual, and then pursuing casual. it'd be shitty if you were lying but you were upfront about it so props. go for it man but don't think you're doing her a favour or gracing her with your body or something.
Is this a dick move or being nice?
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Well sir, I find her very, very attractive but shes not most people's type. Most guys don't like girls as fat as her but I do. I'm 6'4" 245 pounds of mostly lean muscle but I haven't been pursuing sex too aggressively because of how busy I am with school and working out. I could go to parties and get laid a lot more which I did last year but that would mess up my sleep. So I made a tradeoff by quiting college parties and instead use a lazier method in tinder. I get way more tinder matches than all my friends and most other guys by the sound of it so I know I am pretty attractive to most women.
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there's something gross about the way you write that though.
leagues aren't a thing; if you're attracted to her and she's attracted to you, who's to say she isn't out of your league.
and before you come after me calling me jealous (because I really don't wanna fight man) I am clocking in with a very similar physique so i understand what you're saying. I just think you're going about the concept wrong. If you find her attractive that's that. counting your matches doesn't affect the fact that out of all of them, you're thinking about her.
to answer your question more directly though, there's nothing wrong with telling someone you're only looking for casual, and then pursuing casual. it'd be shitty if you were lying but you were upfront about it so props. go for it man but don't think you're doing her a favour or gracing her with your body or something.