Female players are not really the same as a slut. A slut is just a girl who is promiscuous. A player is someone who has multiple partners, sexual usually, and makes most of them believe they are the only one they're seeing. They play the field, the game is to lure the other person in and once they've got them, use them for whatever reason (money, sex, attention -- always under the ruse of there being a possibility for a relationship/commitment). Some players will chase someone until they sleep with them and then completely cut them off, not texting/calling and just completely ignoring them. Others will continue the fling until they know they've got to make a commitment or they're found out. If the other person is naive/has low self esteem, they'll continue to accept the player's apologies and believe them when they say they're the only one for them, and then continue to get their hearts broken. It's all a game. The player usually has low self esteem but it will be hard to tell by their outward appearance. They can seem to have a lot of confidence, know all the right words and moves, but really they're seeking approval by attracting as many people as they can, never committing or letting anyone get too close because they're afraid the person won't like who they really are. It is extremely destructive behavior for both sides.
Is there such thing as a "Female Player"?
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Female players are not really the same as a slut. A slut is just a girl who is promiscuous. A player is someone who has multiple partners, sexual usually, and makes most of them believe they are the only one they're seeing. They play the field, the game is to lure the other person in and once they've got them, use them for whatever reason (money, sex, attention -- always under the ruse of there being a possibility for a relationship/commitment). Some players will chase someone until they sleep with them and then completely cut them off, not texting/calling and just completely ignoring them. Others will continue the fling until they know they've got to make a commitment or they're found out. If the other person is naive/has low self esteem, they'll continue to accept the player's apologies and believe them when they say they're the only one for them, and then continue to get their hearts broken. It's all a game. The player usually has low self esteem but it will be hard to tell by their outward appearance. They can seem to have a lot of confidence, know all the right words and moves, but really they're seeking approval by attracting as many people as they can, never committing or letting anyone get too close because they're afraid the person won't like who they really are. It is extremely destructive behavior for both sides.