I just feel women are not capable of loving men after all the man hate and sexist comments I hear come from them. I just feel so much like just closing my heart and getting a dog, cat and some other animals and just being a total introvert where I don't talk at all. Please don't laugh. I am trying to work out if women are capable of loving men, if they really are capable of it?
As a man I am not allowed to talk about how I feel or my emotions! Men get judged and laughed at when we do. So I have closed myself off emontionally so much more these days. It is just how society is towards men!
There is actually a lot of women that hate men and are sexist to men!
I don't know about most women being nice.
If us men ever show any form of dislike towads women we are the most evil person on earth but if women do it is ok.
That is the thing a lot of women don't give kindness back to men that give it to them.
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There is this one woman I like that was being nice to me but I have now given up on her as of today. I just feel that deep down she will be a man hater as well.
Dude, the man haters are out there, that's just a fact. There are, however, many women that are fantastic. I don't know where you are looking, but try some place different. Take a cooking class at the local college, parks and rec department or restaraunt supply store. Take a language class of some sort. Join a co-ed softball team. Go to a concert in the park if they are offered in your area. My husband felt the same as you. We've been together for 12 years, but married for just 5. I'm his third wife and we are doing great. We are actually best friends, no bullshit. It took him a very long time to trust that I wasn't one of the same horrid bitches he had been married to before. There's a woman out there that will treat you right, it just might take some time to find her. Don't give up yet.
some guys are insecure and project their insecurities on other guys
guys can be emotional and thats fine :)
actually with girls, they may actually want you to talk about your emotions
and thats the thing with criticism, you have to IGNORE it! life is FILLED with criticism, you have to
just ignore it. you have to gain confidence, be secure with yourself and stop caring what people think about you
as long as you're yourself and a decent person, it doesnt matter what other people think about you haha
dont care what people think! just be yourself! i know it might be hard if your just starting off, but thats why you gotta force yourself to gain confidence so you can truely be yourself! in front of anybody and not give a shit
this is why some people find it easier to be themselves on the internet. because their confidents are low lol
if they had tons of confidence, they wouldnt give a shit on the internet or off, about being themselves
they'd just do it
public speaking is really what helps people to gain confidence. independently speaking with your true self in front of a crowd. this is really as far as you can go with confidence. be yourself speaking in front of people
thats it. once you've gained confidence speaking in public, then you've got all the confidence you need
most girls are nice. like i said you cant take the internet as reality
its not. you have to look at where your finding these man-hating chicks. you cant take 2 bad experiences or 10 bad chicks and think they're all like that
most girls ARE nice. once you go through 100 different girls, then maybe you can say most are bad. and that may only be in that certain area anyway
cause girls are emotional, and guys know these chicks are just crazy and we dont give a shit lol
you shouldnt give a shit about these crazy feminist either. they're just fun entertainment haha
here dude, heres a good feminist, one that isnt focused on hating guys, a legit feminist:
htt ps://ww w.you tube.c om/watc h?v=r8-jRZiXbe4&in dex=8&list=LL3qlTwT TzfjNPdok6qWaOHg
you gotta connect the spaces cause this stupid system lol
and heres a funny guy with his friend who talks about stupid feminism and things like that haha
I just get so fed up with the women that are totally sexist about men, total hypocrites and just twist men's words constantly. I mean some of them you could say "Good morning" to and they would find some way of saying it is sexist and women hating. Smh…
I know not all women are this way of course but having to deal with women that are is just so draining and exhausting.
The problem is some women say they want us men to talk about our feelings and then judge us men when we do. So while there are women out there that do truely care it can be hard for men to know who he can really trust. I am good at knowing which women I can trust but a lot of other men struggle with it.
It really depens on the girl if she is nice or not. There are a lot of nice girls for sure, there is also a lot of not nice ones. I do understand the same also applies to men with how men treat women. I just think both men and women need to start being nicer to each other to be honest.
Anyway, thanks for the links. I will have a look at them.
Is there such a thing as true love between men and women?
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i wont be offended :) you dont have to worry
ive heard many bad things i doubt you could offend me lol
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I just feel women are not capable of loving men after all the man hate and sexist comments I hear come from them. I just feel so much like just closing my heart and getting a dog, cat and some other animals and just being a total introvert where I don't talk at all. Please don't laugh. I am trying to work out if women are capable of loving men, if they really are capable of it?
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girls can be emotional
this is just their emotion spewing out of them, because this dumb feminist movement was created by sexist man haters
but they arent that big! most girls are willing to help someone in a relationship :) most girls are kind and nice if you be nice to them
but of course if your not nice, people arent going to be nice to you
these feminist probaley all deal with their own problems with guys, so they take out their own frustration on guys
but even these feminist can change to be with a loving guy
they just gotta get through their own hateful problems, their own jealousy or whatever their dealing with
i know 3 girls who love me <3 and i love them so much
its real, and im a guy btw
they all can see themselves in a relationship with me cause we love each other, but i have already picked the one i want the most
but i still love the other two and they love me, and i will never stop loving them
you can do it. you gotta restore confidence with yourself and get out there! just treat girls with kindness and they'll give it back to you :)
its just nature of how friendships and relationships work
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As a man I am not allowed to talk about how I feel or my emotions! Men get judged and laughed at when we do. So I have closed myself off emontionally so much more these days. It is just how society is towards men!
There is actually a lot of women that hate men and are sexist to men!
I don't know about most women being nice.
If us men ever show any form of dislike towads women we are the most evil person on earth but if women do it is ok.
That is the thing a lot of women don't give kindness back to men that give it to them.
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There is this one woman I like that was being nice to me but I have now given up on her as of today. I just feel that deep down she will be a man hater as well.
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Dude, the man haters are out there, that's just a fact. There are, however, many women that are fantastic. I don't know where you are looking, but try some place different. Take a cooking class at the local college, parks and rec department or restaraunt supply store. Take a language class of some sort. Join a co-ed softball team. Go to a concert in the park if they are offered in your area. My husband felt the same as you. We've been together for 12 years, but married for just 5. I'm his third wife and we are doing great. We are actually best friends, no bullshit. It took him a very long time to trust that I wasn't one of the same horrid bitches he had been married to before. There's a woman out there that will treat you right, it just might take some time to find her. Don't give up yet.
well hey have you looked at those links?
some guys are insecure and project their insecurities on other guys
guys can be emotional and thats fine :)
actually with girls, they may actually want you to talk about your emotions
and thats the thing with criticism, you have to IGNORE it! life is FILLED with criticism, you have to
just ignore it. you have to gain confidence, be secure with yourself and stop caring what people think about you
as long as you're yourself and a decent person, it doesnt matter what other people think about you haha
dont care what people think! just be yourself! i know it might be hard if your just starting off, but thats why you gotta force yourself to gain confidence so you can truely be yourself! in front of anybody and not give a shit
this is why some people find it easier to be themselves on the internet. because their confidents are low lol
if they had tons of confidence, they wouldnt give a shit on the internet or off, about being themselves
they'd just do it
public speaking is really what helps people to gain confidence. independently speaking with your true self in front of a crowd. this is really as far as you can go with confidence. be yourself speaking in front of people
thats it. once you've gained confidence speaking in public, then you've got all the confidence you need
most girls are nice. like i said you cant take the internet as reality
its not. you have to look at where your finding these man-hating chicks. you cant take 2 bad experiences or 10 bad chicks and think they're all like that
most girls ARE nice. once you go through 100 different girls, then maybe you can say most are bad. and that may only be in that certain area anyway
cause girls are emotional, and guys know these chicks are just crazy and we dont give a shit lol
you shouldnt give a shit about these crazy feminist either. they're just fun entertainment haha
here dude, heres a good feminist, one that isnt focused on hating guys, a legit feminist:
htt ps://ww w.you tube.c om/watc h?v=r8-jRZiXbe4&in dex=8&list=LL3qlTwT TzfjNPdok6qWaOHg
you gotta connect the spaces cause this stupid system lol
and heres a funny guy with his friend who talks about stupid feminism and things like that haha
http s://www.you tube.c om/u ser/Andy warski/vi deos
awwww dont give up on her! she could like you! your only thinking that because of the stupid feminist and negative bullshit you hear on chicks
but like i said, you shouldnt believe the negativeness, most girls are cool :)
not give up on her! give her a chance! :)
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I just get so fed up with the women that are totally sexist about men, total hypocrites and just twist men's words constantly. I mean some of them you could say "Good morning" to and they would find some way of saying it is sexist and women hating. Smh…
I know not all women are this way of course but having to deal with women that are is just so draining and exhausting.
The problem is some women say they want us men to talk about our feelings and then judge us men when we do. So while there are women out there that do truely care it can be hard for men to know who he can really trust. I am good at knowing which women I can trust but a lot of other men struggle with it.
It really depens on the girl if she is nice or not. There are a lot of nice girls for sure, there is also a lot of not nice ones. I do understand the same also applies to men with how men treat women. I just think both men and women need to start being nicer to each other to be honest.
Anyway, thanks for the links. I will have a look at them.
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most girls i know wouldnt say thats sexist to say good morning
i dont know where your finding these girls lol
i mean honestly just ignore them. maybe they're having a bad day or something and are taking out on you
dont take it personally
it depends on how you mean they "judge" us? maybe you're just being too sensitive to what some girls say? just depends on what they say
being nicer would help :) i dont know where your at but i never have any problems usually with girls
most are nice. i can see if your in a bad location or something, like maybe new york or chicago haha
n ok cool :) hope they do something for you. i wouldnt take any of this too seriously though
just know that girls are there for guys most times if you two are getting along, obviously being nice to each other
most girls have nothing against you. you cant let your mind think that