First things first, hide. Find a place in or around your house that your mom or sister can’t easily get to you. If you feel threatened run there and hide until they give up trying to get you.
Second, tell someone who will take you seriously. The police can’t do anything unless they have proof, so contacting them will be useless unless you can get the abuse on video. CPS might work better, but they still won’t do anything unless you have obvious bruises, which might be healed by the time they come.
My adoptive dad used to choke me, slap me, and throw me into walls. I got so scared that one day when he was gone I called a suicide hotline and told them. 3 weeks later CPS and police arrived. But by then my bruises from the last incident were healed and they didn’t really care about the dents in the walls. I begged the police officer to take me away because I was absolutely terrified and was so scared of what would happen when they left. They didn’t do anything though. When they left I begged my father to forgive me and he yelled at me for a bit but thankfully didn’t choke me.
For a while he didn’t choke me again but eventually when my mom left to go shopping one evening I stupidly pissed him off and he did it again.
I didn’t tell anyone until I told my therapist because she promised not to tell but she did anyway. The police arrived again. After that he hasn’t choked me since. He’s a elder at a church and I think he was afraid of others finding out and him losing his position, so that’s why he stopped. I’m still scared of him though. So calling the police a few times might work in some situations, but in some situations you might just get beaten for it or the police not take you seriously anymore.
My father has been abusive enough to make me not trust him anymore, but he’s not like your mom. I think you need to be more careful with her. She might seriously hurt you if she’s finds out you’ve told. So be selective about who you tell and make sure they’ll take action immediately and get you away somewhere safe.
Third, you are not worthless, b*tch, c*nt, or any of those words they’ve called you. They’re just bullies. They’re the ones who are those words.
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First things first, hide. Find a place in or around your house that your mom or sister can’t easily get to you. If you feel threatened run there and hide until they give up trying to get you.
Second, tell someone who will take you seriously. The police can’t do anything unless they have proof, so contacting them will be useless unless you can get the abuse on video. CPS might work better, but they still won’t do anything unless you have obvious bruises, which might be healed by the time they come.
My adoptive dad used to choke me, slap me, and throw me into walls. I got so scared that one day when he was gone I called a suicide hotline and told them. 3 weeks later CPS and police arrived. But by then my bruises from the last incident were healed and they didn’t really care about the dents in the walls. I begged the police officer to take me away because I was absolutely terrified and was so scared of what would happen when they left. They didn’t do anything though. When they left I begged my father to forgive me and he yelled at me for a bit but thankfully didn’t choke me.
For a while he didn’t choke me again but eventually when my mom left to go shopping one evening I stupidly pissed him off and he did it again.
I didn’t tell anyone until I told my therapist because she promised not to tell but she did anyway. The police arrived again. After that he hasn’t choked me since. He’s a elder at a church and I think he was afraid of others finding out and him losing his position, so that’s why he stopped. I’m still scared of him though. So calling the police a few times might work in some situations, but in some situations you might just get beaten for it or the police not take you seriously anymore.
My father has been abusive enough to make me not trust him anymore, but he’s not like your mom. I think you need to be more careful with her. She might seriously hurt you if she’s finds out you’ve told. So be selective about who you tell and make sure they’ll take action immediately and get you away somewhere safe.
Third, you are not worthless, b*tch, c*nt, or any of those words they’ve called you. They’re just bullies. They’re the ones who are those words.
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Omg. I want to adopt you sweety. I am sooooo sorry you go through all that. I had no idea.