Why don't you broaden your search area for men. There really are a bunch of decent ones out there that are not users, and they share and are willing to commit to the right Lady.
Of course, perhaps its you that are using men... and the only men who will allow it to even start are the kind you cannot live with long term. That's on you if this is the case. You can learn to do better if that is the case.
You can also learn to look in other places where decent men hang out. Hint: Its not at the bar or the club, and its not on the cheesiest/cheapest dating sites either.
I dealt with tons of obvious mismatches on most dating sites for over a decade (and do I have stories) - and then found much better possibilities and the lady who became my wife on a dating site that required both of us to pay noticeable $ for a membership (best dating website investment ever - and I think I paid $300 about a decade ago for I think a 6 month membership - and I believe the Ladies had to pay the same).
I guess the lesson I learned from that was: "If you don't want cheap trash... then stop acting like cheap trash yourself."
I guess that applies in public meeting places too. I prefer to take Ladies to museums, the ballet, and other places; and totally avoid the bars and clubs. We can always find other places to go that most bar flies would never think off..
Is there a way to stop dating men?
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Why don't you broaden your search area for men. There really are a bunch of decent ones out there that are not users, and they share and are willing to commit to the right Lady.
Of course, perhaps its you that are using men... and the only men who will allow it to even start are the kind you cannot live with long term. That's on you if this is the case. You can learn to do better if that is the case.
You can also learn to look in other places where decent men hang out. Hint: Its not at the bar or the club, and its not on the cheesiest/cheapest dating sites either.
I dealt with tons of obvious mismatches on most dating sites for over a decade (and do I have stories) - and then found much better possibilities and the lady who became my wife on a dating site that required both of us to pay noticeable $ for a membership (best dating website investment ever - and I think I paid $300 about a decade ago for I think a 6 month membership - and I believe the Ladies had to pay the same).
I guess the lesson I learned from that was: "If you don't want cheap trash... then stop acting like cheap trash yourself."
I guess that applies in public meeting places too. I prefer to take Ladies to museums, the ballet, and other places; and totally avoid the bars and clubs. We can always find other places to go that most bar flies would never think off..
I wish you well with this,