Is there a way to feel more girly about myself? (im a guy)

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Okay, I want to FEEL like a girl. I realised that simple things like the way you talk, walk, and even use the bathroom help. Im looking for more like that. If I do something "off the wall" then I get beat up by people at school and in trouble from my parents. So how do I feel like one without crossdressing, make-up, etc. I recently started sitting different, and that just makes me feel SO DIFFERENT? If there are more ways please tell me.

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  • dodongos
    11 years ago

    Oh man, I'm as girly as they get. Let's see if I can help.

    Hmm... well, when I yawn or sneeze, I make a high-pitched squeak. I like to stare intently into my own eyes in the mirror, tilting my head and letting out a little sigh. It helps to act very "innocent" and be unsure when you answer questions, ending your answer with a cute little "...I think."
    Also, I sit with my legs crossed, sit when I pee, and sit with my back nice and straight. And when I put my hands on my knees when I'm sitting, I make a fist with my thumbs on the sides and bend my wrists up.

    Skinny jeans help too. And growing longer hair.

    If you're going for the sweet and cute girly, I hope this helps. :D

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    • Jkhency2762
      11 years ago

      Thank you so much!!!!!!!!! You gave me so many tips, and all of it's stuff I hadn't tried. (except the obvious sitting down when I pee, and my hair length) I think I can be alot more content with these. You actually gave me what I needed. I had done said that I have to keep it from my parents too, and that's easy enough with this stuff

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      • paulpmcmahon7
        11 years ago

        You could wear something underneath

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      • dodongos
        11 years ago

        Well I'm happy I could help :) Good luck!

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        • ucipher8
          11 years ago

          you must be a southern bell, or rather gong

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          • dodongos
            11 years ago

            I'm from New England.
            Home of tha Red Sahx and the Bahstin Hahbah.

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        • Jkhency2762
          11 years ago

          Thank you!

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    • dappled
      11 years ago

      That's great advice. There's nothing I can add to that!

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  • Cutegirl12225
    11 years ago

    Do you want to have boobs & a vagina? How old are you? Maybe you should see a psyc if you have GID (Gender Identity Disorder). Start taking hormones to develop into a girl.. My friend did that as it all started with her wanting to be more girly and now she is a full girl after a few years of hormones.

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    • Jkhency2762
      11 years ago

      Im seeing a therapist, may or may not be the same thing as a psyc... I'm fiveteen. I know the website is... umm... supposed to be for 18 year olds but oh well, so is facebook. I would take hormones in an instant but my mom doesnt want it, so I have to wait... :(

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  • Ldizzy1234
    11 years ago

    Bat your eyes.

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    • Jkhency2762
      11 years ago

      When would that be useful though? Im not a flirt or anything..

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      • Ldizzy1234
        11 years ago

        Well, its definitely girly, and you never really see guys doing that. Its more of a girl thing. I don't know...

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        • Jkhency2762
          11 years ago

          Ill try it

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  • Wild_Child
    11 years ago

    Let your hair grow long. Girls panties/socks. Maybe do your toenails. Of course, sit down to piss.

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    • Jkhency2762
      11 years ago

      Thank you

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  • Flawlessism
    10 years ago

    Pretend you have long hair and pretend to flip it away. I dunno, I do that, haha.

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  • Cutegirl12225
    11 years ago

    Your body might adapt better to hormones and being a girl now than later... Will you transistion at 18 if she says no? Maybe the therapist/psyc will tell her u havr GID. Just ask her and tell her you need to be a girl. Do you wear panties?

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    • Jkhency2762
      11 years ago

      Thank you, i will try this

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    11 years ago

    Heh, I think it's awesome that you're trying to step outside the confines of your gender role despite what people around you think. :) I'm sorry for people at school though... would that be considered hate-crime-ish? O.o I'm pretty sure it would. :/

    I don't feel like I can be a lot of help on this one though. I'm one of the least feminine girls I know. XD

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    • Jkhency2762
      11 years ago

      Crimes are pretty well ignored where I live, people get away with a lot here. Beating someone up will get you in very little trouble, but I'm also looking for things to keep my mom from getting totally upset, and maybe the more I act girly, the more she'll ease with it. I don't know.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    is your hair long enough to braid? if not wear pink nailpolish or this might get you beat up, i know wear frilly undies , no one will see them just you

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    • ucipher8
      11 years ago

      is a male with long hair thats braided considered feminine?

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      • Jkhency2762
        11 years ago

        Depends on specifics... :)

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  • robbieforgotpw
    11 years ago

    Shave your legs and wear daisy dukes. Don't forget the lisp, you'll resemble a homo in no time.

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    • Jkhency2762
      11 years ago

      Youve made the same exact comment before, just left out the part about getting clobbered... and theres a difference netween wanting to seem gay and feels like a girl

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  • cranberryflavourlube
    11 years ago

    There's no way to "feel like a girl"... women are individual people, not a separate, "other" kind of human race. We all have different existences/experiences.

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    • Jkhency2762
      11 years ago

      Wow, I understand what you mean, but there are still things you can do to feel like the opposite gender either way. Whether it's your own person or not, if it gives off that impression to people then thats how its considered

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  • Willtheman
    11 years ago

    are you people gay????????

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    • Jkhency2762
      11 years ago

      Dude, so many people in the world are homosexual, lesbian, bisexual, or bi-curious. You'll see more and more of that over the internet. Go to Washington D.C. There are quite a few gay couples there. In fact, you can go anywhere where it's legal for same sex to get married, and find quite a few of them. So there are eleven states that you could go visit. I'm personally bisexual, but there are straight guys who transgender too. Don't disbelieve that for a second. I know that there are a lot more girls where I live that are gay/les/bi, because the guys here hide it, except me, which I'm not proud of anymore, because now people aim to mess with me.

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