You call a 2 year relationship in which you only see the guy a couple of times a year "committed?" Committed to what? I hope you have more than that planned.
That you find yourself attracted to other men is healthy. That you stare & crush probably relates to the nature of your committed relationship - just not much action there to meet your needs.
It disturbs me that you may attribute it to your previous abuse. I hope you get some help on that to get from under that shadow.
But honestly, I think the crushing & gushing is just that a long distance relationship can't last too long or possibly make you happy & fulfilled as a healthy women living in the present.
Is Staring Normal?
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You call a 2 year relationship in which you only see the guy a couple of times a year "committed?" Committed to what? I hope you have more than that planned.
That you find yourself attracted to other men is healthy. That you stare & crush probably relates to the nature of your committed relationship - just not much action there to meet your needs.
It disturbs me that you may attribute it to your previous abuse. I hope you get some help on that to get from under that shadow.
But honestly, I think the crushing & gushing is just that a long distance relationship can't last too long or possibly make you happy & fulfilled as a healthy women living in the present.