Is she trying to tell me something?

What should I think of a woman you has aggressively said "I love money" "I want gifts on a regular basis" "I want what I want, when I want it, and won't stop till I get it." "I have a problem revealing my money to my mate" "I don't want to live on a budget" "I want to spend my money the way I want to and dont ask me anything" " "I don't trust men, and I'm not listening to anything any man tells me." Things like have been said over the last 6mnths. Is it normal for a person to conceal the fact (from someone she is supposedly involved with) that her young daughter is adopted and when a correspondence reveals the truth without you snooping and the person insists on attempting to continue to cover up the truth, then says "Well I did not consider that lying." Is that normal? What is the big deal? You did a noble thing, you adopted a child. This lady is currently separated, has told me she has slapped her husband in the face because she thougt he had a "roving" eye. Spit in his face and smashed his laptop in front of him during a fit of anger. Took leisurely trip for 3-4 weeks ata time without him 2-3 times a yr and snickered at the fact that he packed her luggage and said, "I had gotten used to him packing my luggage" Has said to me while in conversation "You're a tough cookie" "Can you be tamed" In her marriage she has participated in sexual role reversal with her husband, having him put on her lingerie and using an instrument (you know what I mean) while exacting mild violence (you know what I mean) on him and calling him names (not mentionable) Talked passionately about solo travel (domestically and abroad) and "roommates." Talked passionately about working in a female corrections facility and catching females in compromising situations, Said she has told her husband (separated) that she fantasizes about being with another woman. Listened intently when I rehearsed a story about going to clubs having lesbian nite and seeing bunches of professional women there from a large local agency and they participated with the female dancers and acts of simulation, etc. Has said she wants to cut her hair very short but does not want to considered a "dyke." Checks women out when we've been out publically. Hs a "godmother" for her daughter who comes to visit 3- 4 times a year staying a week or two at a time and admitted that"She's like my sister" and that they sleep in the same bed when she's there. (daughter in next room) Have witnessed/heard
the"godmother" (thinking I was gone) while this lady was asleep in the family room, calling her name out, I guess trying to wake her and say "come upstairs". And then got upset and defensive when I asked her about the "why" of that incident. All these occurences are true. I am not a judgmental person but.....This type behavior paints pictures. I'm interested in feedback please....Thanks
Jazz123