Is she interested or not?

Ok guys help me out here because I'm terrible at reading signals. I live in university halls and on the same floor as me is this French girl. We get on fairly well, we chat when we see each other in the kitchen we share, I make her laugh, we help each other out from time to time etc. Anyway I went away for a couple of weeks and when I came back she said "oh you've been gone for 3 weeks, it was really boring without you", though I don't think she went as far as to say she missed me as such that seemed to be what she was saying. She doesn't seem the flirty type, and I'm pretty sure she hasn't had a boyfriend while I've been living there.

Is it normal to think this girl might have a crush on me, and if so how do I find out without asking her directly as such?

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  • Just ask her if she wants to FUCK next time you see her.

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  • Silent12

    Hahaha LMFAO..... Ok sorry I just find it funny some of these reponses. Alright you want to know if she likes you and what not, Iisten to women alot I know alot about them. Dudes always say," WTF.... Why are girls do complicated", some times I wonder who are the one with the vagina LOL :O ok back on track what to do. It may seem that way but it could just be because you guys are really good friends or she could like you, and yeah you can assume she does but just wait and be patient stay friends for a little bit then when you think it's right ask her on a date or ask her if she thinks you guys could be more than friends, and do t let that assumption get in the way of waiting. And if your already thinking ohhh I wanna fuck her ohhh yeah get that thought out of your head when you go out with her don't thi k of that at all pay attention to her and let her know that that relationship would work and that she means more to you than just a peice of ass. Respect her and let her know you can be a man to help her through hard times you will be there to help her stand when she's weak and you can be caring and that you'll listen when she needs someone. So don't just think from the male perspective but from the females perspective as well. Girls get.... Most would say disrepected, as I say yea but also abused, girls are strong. So just let her know there one guy out there who's not a dick and will show her a good time and isn't expecting any thing in return (sex) I hope not only u but other dudes that this advise seriously. Well good luck :D

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  • Michaelangelus

    You're not in highschool anymore. If you are interested in her too, man up and ask her out on a date. Sounds like you got a hood shot.

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  • screaminasian

    regardless of whether she has a crush on you it's a pretty good start. try inviting her to do fun activities with you (not necessarily DATES) to show off your sociable side and she'll probably like you more

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  • sheepaholic

    Just try and ask her out, maybe ask her to eat with you or watch a DVD. And see how she reacts. If she is happy with your request you know what's going on. Then at the "date" see how her body language is, and then go in for the "kill".

    Important is, to keep it simple and light. Don't go too fast, unless you feel it's appropriate. And don't be afraid to be inappropriate, if you dont take the shot, it's a miss.

    From what i take from the story, she "just" likes you, but it never hurts to try.

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  • Awww you are like so many guys who over-think things.

    YOU are attracted romantically to her. She at least likes you. Ask her out to dinner, or an event or whatever but make it clear that it is a date. And see how things go from there.

    Many woman like men to be assertive & take the lead. Assertive - not aggressive & insensitive. So ask her out. Or lose her & never know.

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  • andrian007

    You definitely cannot assume anything from this. You're not the only one having this problem, I think most men have it too. Any signal sent out by girls could easily be misinterpreted by the boys. I have a friend whose party I attended and when I had to leave, she hugged me and kissed me on the cheek quite several times. That still didn't mean anything because we know we're friends and that it can never go beyond that.

    When your girl said what she said, that only meant that she thought things are never boring when you're around, but that's about it. A definite signal would be something along the lines of "I really missed you". Bt you can always ask her out just the two of you and then see what happens next.

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  • holio

    If I'm attracted, I always assume it's on. Make advances and don't apologize for what you want to happen. The horse reacts differently depending on the rider. Either she goes for it or she doesn't but you won't have any regrets at the end of the day.

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  • jessica1068

    she might not actually like you like that. maybe she was just being friendly. if i was you i wouldnt ask her, wait until you know for sure that shes interested because you might scare her off.

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  • Magnetising

    Normal, but that doesn't mean that she does actually like you. With intimacy, it is so difficult to read that you might aswell make proportionate advances to see whether she reciprocates...

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