Men who act like that are doing the exact same thing.
If a guy walks into the room flexing his muscles, in any state of undress... he's inviting women to look... and I'll look with them, as a gay man.
The "difference" (which is why I didn't bother mentioning it earlier) is that it's not normalised for men to sexualise themselves like women do... but then when one DOES, he knows exactly what he's doing and doesn't complain when women view him as "sexy".
I don't have a double standard, that's you saying that. Man or woman, wear what the fuck you want... but you can't dictate how people are going to see you or judge you for how you're dressed.
If you know damn well that you look sexy with your shirt un-buttoned and you feel empowered going out like that, good for you that's great. Either own your sexuality and be like "yeah, I felt like being sexy today", or if you can't handle it go home and get dressed into something that won't get you that attention. Either way, suck it up and stop being a dramatic victimhood-obsessed whiner.
What's "stupid" is leaving the house with your ass and tits virtually on show, lingerie showing, and expecting that, somehow, straight men are not going to notice. That's a damn topsy-turvy world you live in that's how you think.
Is objectification to be expected by female attire?
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Men who act like that are doing the exact same thing.
If a guy walks into the room flexing his muscles, in any state of undress... he's inviting women to look... and I'll look with them, as a gay man.
The "difference" (which is why I didn't bother mentioning it earlier) is that it's not normalised for men to sexualise themselves like women do... but then when one DOES, he knows exactly what he's doing and doesn't complain when women view him as "sexy".
I don't have a double standard, that's you saying that. Man or woman, wear what the fuck you want... but you can't dictate how people are going to see you or judge you for how you're dressed.
If you know damn well that you look sexy with your shirt un-buttoned and you feel empowered going out like that, good for you that's great. Either own your sexuality and be like "yeah, I felt like being sexy today", or if you can't handle it go home and get dressed into something that won't get you that attention. Either way, suck it up and stop being a dramatic victimhood-obsessed whiner.
What's "stupid" is leaving the house with your ass and tits virtually on show, lingerie showing, and expecting that, somehow, straight men are not going to notice. That's a damn topsy-turvy world you live in that's how you think.