It can be quite difficult to make new friends after school, more so if you tend to be a timid and introverted person. Not only the above characteristics make it harder, but living in a major city as well. Also consider the fact that true friends are hard to come by. Most are just acquaintances that eventually show you their true colors.
Go to bars, book stores etc, and just try to strike up some conversations. Although depending on what city you live that may not be such a good idea. Major city people are usually the loneliest, which is ironic considering the fact that millions of people live in that one single place. Many factors contribute to this city attitude. Crime, overpopulation, busy lifestyle, fast pace, etc.
Best of luck, you're gonna need it. I myself have been friendless for a long time.
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It can be quite difficult to make new friends after school, more so if you tend to be a timid and introverted person. Not only the above characteristics make it harder, but living in a major city as well. Also consider the fact that true friends are hard to come by. Most are just acquaintances that eventually show you their true colors.
Go to bars, book stores etc, and just try to strike up some conversations. Although depending on what city you live that may not be such a good idea. Major city people are usually the loneliest, which is ironic considering the fact that millions of people live in that one single place. Many factors contribute to this city attitude. Crime, overpopulation, busy lifestyle, fast pace, etc.
Best of luck, you're gonna need it. I myself have been friendless for a long time.