Personally, I'd suggest that anyone who gets involved in whatever they consider to be a serious relationship, should stay alone thereafter without getting into any other relationships for a minimum of 4 months. I actually just made that number up, but you get the idea, right?
This person is rightly taking things slow, so as not to get into a relationship with you and use the stuff meant for the previous partner to taint their relationship with you. It takes time to get a previous partner out of your system, and to truly move on.
Her confusion (and a bit of selfishness) does come out in the open, when she expects you to be able to cuddle or to be happy with the situation the way it is. It's a confusing, complicated situation and it might be best if you both were a bit stricter with each other: setting clear boundaries with each other regarding what you are each comfortable with right now, and where you would each like to see things go say two weeks, or two months from now. This is communication. Y'all need to practice some rendition of it.
Is normal when someone who likes you....
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Personally, I'd suggest that anyone who gets involved in whatever they consider to be a serious relationship, should stay alone thereafter without getting into any other relationships for a minimum of 4 months. I actually just made that number up, but you get the idea, right?
This person is rightly taking things slow, so as not to get into a relationship with you and use the stuff meant for the previous partner to taint their relationship with you. It takes time to get a previous partner out of your system, and to truly move on.
Her confusion (and a bit of selfishness) does come out in the open, when she expects you to be able to cuddle or to be happy with the situation the way it is. It's a confusing, complicated situation and it might be best if you both were a bit stricter with each other: setting clear boundaries with each other regarding what you are each comfortable with right now, and where you would each like to see things go say two weeks, or two months from now. This is communication. Y'all need to practice some rendition of it.
best of luck to you!