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My husband of 18 years does not want to have sex with me. Every time I try he just laughs. Yes we have two teen girls but when I try they are no way near us. Before having sex was all we did..... And now nothing.......it has been almost 3months. Yes we both gained weight we both sleep in the same bed and we do everything together, but sex. Any thoughts?
Three months? Hmm. . .As a guy I'd say he's getting his pipe cleaned at another smoke shop. Pure speculation on my part. You need to talk to him.
It's been three months!!! You need to have a conversation with your husband. From a regular healthy sex life to nothing? That's not normal.
It could by many factors. It could be he doesn't find your weight gain sexy. Maybe he is an ass man and yours doesn't turn him on. Maybe he is just to used to having sex with you, familiar, out of the honeymoon stage. Does not mean he doesn't love you. We are human. That is why we have to be committed when kids are involved. Could be some fight which never got resolved. I would look there first before adultery or turning gay. Talk to him, without blaming. Tell him how you feel. Tell him you love him first and then tell him how lack of sex is making you feel unloved.
porn, he likes young women.
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you, then have sex with the poor man
That sounds off. Have you tried asking him why he always seems to say no to sex? If I were to take a wild shot in the dark, I would guess that he might not wanna risk having more kids, which makes sense. That may not be the case though, it could be a multitude of things. Bring it up and see what he says!
Possibly, he is becoming gay. If this is the case, he will avoid touching you.