It's definitely just for the person who was heartbroken because I think that's what the poll was trying to discuss, but that's an interesting point that requires a separate solution.
How candid was she with this guy? I don't think she has to be a bitch - honesty doesn't have to mean malice. It's a tough situation because it's the other party that has to learn from this and mature, but I think there are certainly better ways to help him (and herself) with that than avoidance or bitchiness.
Is no contact the best solution to move on?
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It's definitely just for the person who was heartbroken because I think that's what the poll was trying to discuss, but that's an interesting point that requires a separate solution.
How candid was she with this guy? I don't think she has to be a bitch - honesty doesn't have to mean malice. It's a tough situation because it's the other party that has to learn from this and mature, but I think there are certainly better ways to help him (and herself) with that than avoidance or bitchiness.