Is my wife a whore/slut if she had like 13 partners before me?
She has had intercourse since she was like 17 while on college and she´s always been very keen about sex. She even let´s me film her during sex etc.
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I'd guess she's a pretty good lover because of her escapades. You should thank your lucky stars she wasn't some up tight virgin, terrified of sex, when you married her. I think you are a very fortunate man and shouldn't make a big deal of the previous relationships, which helped create the woman I assume you fell in love with.
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I gotta say, I like your point of view on this one.
A lot of males (well, here in general) will say that said number of partners makes a woman a whore or a slut of easy, what have you, but never have any of my partners complained. In fact, afterwards, they tend to admit having reservations about my having as much experience as I do but they will say that having a partner who is more experienced and has a higher comfort level with sex seems to be the preferable method. Especially when I am with someone who is a virgin or has had less than 5 partners.
I'm sure it depends on the woman and all but to me, if I were a dude and I were looking to have a partner to have a good time with, I would definitely be ok with a woman who has sexual experience and knowledge of how to have fun and stay safe.
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Simply does not exist. It does not matter how or why someone has intercourse. There is no such thing. It is merely a word, that jealous humans created to justify anger towards others.
Sex is the most natural and basic function of any human being...animals... spiders...
The number of partners, whatever it may be...will never matter. Everyone should be getting it, it is just that not everyone can.Comment Hidden ( show )
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Lol thanx
the person above who said there is no such thing as one got thumbs up maybe because people dont want to feel bad about themselves if they slept around a lot.
But the thing is there is such thing as one its a person who sleeps around a lot... *shrugs*In my school there were a lot of sluts...like one girl I knew had 2 guys she was sleeping with who didnt know about each other... another girl I knew had sex 3 times one weekend with 3 seperate people after 3 seperate dates...and didnt were underwear to school(would not have cared if it wasnt for the fact in the locker room she sat her naked ass on the benches)lol
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I can't be bothered reading every post in detail, but it doesn't seem anyone has asked OP how many sexual partners he had before his current relationship? Oh sorry, there's no such thing as a male slut or whore is there, they're called studs and admired ......
The double standard lives on and on and on ......
I ticked Yes to Whore, because it's a meaningless term, as is slut: usually it just means someone who's getting or has had more and/or better sex than the person doing the labelling - says everything about the labeller and nothing about the labelled.
Posted by a slut whore and proud of it ..........
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If one judges one's spouse, AFTER the commencement of matrimony, then one is just an ASSHOLE. When people share their lives with each other, making the committement Everyday, then passing judgement on the person about what they did before the 2 people met/ married is the beginning of a self-destruct mode. Morales have less to do with it - it's more about being fair and loving - since one accepted the marriage.
Buy, hey, hypocrites need reasons to judge... I guess.
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OMG lol. Such a double standard. She isn't a slut because she enjoys sex and is honest with u. I like a woman that know what she's doing, and that comes with practice, safe practice. As long as she's clean and it's not like throwing a hotdog down a hallway, I wouldn't worry about it.
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Sounds like she may have had either a string of not so successful relationships or perhaps she was just having a bit of fun, both of which are relatively normal.
I guess context might change that, if all of the sexual partners were one night stands while she was at parties, then it would change things. 14 partners over 10 years, perhaps she just had one partner every 7-9 months and moved on quickly.
Personally, I suggest you look to the future rather than the past. Judge her by how she acts now, not how she potentially was and if it really bothers you, speak to her.
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