Your therapist is behaving extremely inappropriately in flirting with you or touching you physically and she should find her own therapist if she wants to talk about her own personal problems: counselling time is YOUR time, not hers! I suggest you tell her so and find another therapist ASAP. If you don't feel you can confront her, then don't, just don't make another appointment with her.
Take no notice of the disbelievers on this site or elsewhere: I know for a fact that this does happen and it definitely should not.
Well... I am a girl, I don’t see it as flirting. I think she was trying to comfort me as it was a hard session. But I just don’t know if they are allowed to give you rides to places. And she was trying to make me feel better by just mentioning a little bit about herself that she knows how I feel.
Saying she's sorry you're 17 and referring to touching you sounds VERY like flirting to me. Would you see it as flirting if a male counsellor did the same?
What I do to keep a roof over my head has nothing whatsoever to do with my comments on this post and I'm very well aware of the boundary between sexual and non-sexual matters.
If the comment was only about OP crossing the road then I'm wrong to interpret it as crossing boundaries, but that's not how it seemed to me when I read the original post.
Uh you twisted that. I am a female and so is she, I think she was just trying to watch out for me. She didn't want me to get hit by a car, and forgot I wasn't a child so she quickly said oops you are 17 sorry! Because she has children of her own that she watches for. And then continued to make a joke how at least she didn't reach for my hand.
Is my therapist crossing boundaries?
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Your therapist is behaving extremely inappropriately in flirting with you or touching you physically and she should find her own therapist if she wants to talk about her own personal problems: counselling time is YOUR time, not hers! I suggest you tell her so and find another therapist ASAP. If you don't feel you can confront her, then don't, just don't make another appointment with her.
Take no notice of the disbelievers on this site or elsewhere: I know for a fact that this does happen and it definitely should not.
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Oh my God can you please be realistic for once?
Well... I am a girl, I don’t see it as flirting. I think she was trying to comfort me as it was a hard session. But I just don’t know if they are allowed to give you rides to places. And she was trying to make me feel better by just mentioning a little bit about herself that she knows how I feel.
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Saying she's sorry you're 17 and referring to touching you sounds VERY like flirting to me. Would you see it as flirting if a male counsellor did the same?
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Just because you sell sex on the phone doesn't mean everything is about sex.
She meant she was going to stop her crossing the road.
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What I do to keep a roof over my head has nothing whatsoever to do with my comments on this post and I'm very well aware of the boundary between sexual and non-sexual matters.
If the comment was only about OP crossing the road then I'm wrong to interpret it as crossing boundaries, but that's not how it seemed to me when I read the original post.
Uh you twisted that. I am a female and so is she, I think she was just trying to watch out for me. She didn't want me to get hit by a car, and forgot I wasn't a child so she quickly said oops you are 17 sorry! Because she has children of her own that she watches for. And then continued to make a joke how at least she didn't reach for my hand.
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Misunderstanding something is not "twisting" it. Now I get it, but I didn't when I read your original post.