this is a very delicate situation. my first thought is that he has had a substandard childhood and since you were the only one there, you are the only one he can blame. your thought of him lying to his partner and doing all this to cover that up is also a possibility. you should visit him in person and ask him why he hates you so much when all you have done is try to make his life sustainable under the difficult circumstances. and above all, let him know that you love him even if he doesnt love you and let him know that you were only doing your best with what you had. if this doesnt work, then forget him. i know this is a horrible thing for me to say but if he doesnt want anything to do with you then dont force it if none of the above works, it will only make him hate you more.
is my sons behavior normal?
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this is a very delicate situation. my first thought is that he has had a substandard childhood and since you were the only one there, you are the only one he can blame. your thought of him lying to his partner and doing all this to cover that up is also a possibility. you should visit him in person and ask him why he hates you so much when all you have done is try to make his life sustainable under the difficult circumstances. and above all, let him know that you love him even if he doesnt love you and let him know that you were only doing your best with what you had. if this doesnt work, then forget him. i know this is a horrible thing for me to say but if he doesnt want anything to do with you then dont force it if none of the above works, it will only make him hate you more.