Come on you are not serious right? I'm his mother, wouldn't i know if something so serious had happened to him!? Abused children are sad and they don't express themselves. He's more than expressive, like the only time he doesn't talk is when he sleeps or stuffs his mouth with something, and he jokes all the time (his jokes are rarely funny but that's not the point); it kinda make you want to punch him in the face! I don't know, maybe he's hurt by something i can take that, but come on saying he's "abused", that's totally nuts.
I don't know what your "be agrown up" coment was supposed to mean. Do you think that i haven't asked the opinion of closer people before asking totally strangers. Most of them said that's he is fine and that i mustn't worry, this is just a fase and so on.
To be honest at first i thought you're totally crazy for saying that, but then i thought the only thing you know about my son is this text, so it's kinda normal to think that. I mean i only wrote his weirdest moments here, there obviously a million other things he does every day, that are obvious to me but you're unaware of, and i din't wrote because i didn't want to make it 500 pages, that show he isn't half as bad. He's actually much more kindhearted that this text probably made you believe and it's my mistake that i didn't mentioned it up there; i just wanted to highlight the weirdest moments.
And so you're aware, if any of my sons have any kind of problem i am not affraid to understand and face it! I just don't want to jump to conclusions.....
No problem. My mistake. I'm glad you are understanding and explained my point of view well. It's hard to give and get accurate advice to/from strangers over the internet. If you talked to others who are close to your son and they all seem unconcerned then I wouldn't worry much about it. Sorry for the mixup and if I seemed cruel or harsh I am also sorry.
It's ok, no worries! I mean my son definately isn't the most typical example of a 10 year old but deep down he's a sweet kid. I don't know maybe growing up with his father away is difficult for him.
Is my son normal?
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Unfortunatelly yes! He can't be helped can he?
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He needs therapy. Sounds like he was at some point in his life the victim of abuse.
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Come on you are not serious right? I'm his mother, wouldn't i know if something so serious had happened to him!? Abused children are sad and they don't express themselves. He's more than expressive, like the only time he doesn't talk is when he sleeps or stuffs his mouth with something, and he jokes all the time (his jokes are rarely funny but that's not the point); it kinda make you want to punch him in the face! I don't know, maybe he's hurt by something i can take that, but come on saying he's "abused", that's totally nuts.
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There are many types of abuse. Not all are sexual.
Sorry to tell you but your kid has issues.
Talk to his doctor about his behavior and your concerns.
Be a grown up.
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I don't know what your "be agrown up" coment was supposed to mean. Do you think that i haven't asked the opinion of closer people before asking totally strangers. Most of them said that's he is fine and that i mustn't worry, this is just a fase and so on.
To be honest at first i thought you're totally crazy for saying that, but then i thought the only thing you know about my son is this text, so it's kinda normal to think that. I mean i only wrote his weirdest moments here, there obviously a million other things he does every day, that are obvious to me but you're unaware of, and i din't wrote because i didn't want to make it 500 pages, that show he isn't half as bad. He's actually much more kindhearted that this text probably made you believe and it's my mistake that i didn't mentioned it up there; i just wanted to highlight the weirdest moments.
And so you're aware, if any of my sons have any kind of problem i am not affraid to understand and face it! I just don't want to jump to conclusions.....
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No problem. My mistake. I'm glad you are understanding and explained my point of view well. It's hard to give and get accurate advice to/from strangers over the internet. If you talked to others who are close to your son and they all seem unconcerned then I wouldn't worry much about it. Sorry for the mixup and if I seemed cruel or harsh I am also sorry.
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It's ok, no worries! I mean my son definately isn't the most typical example of a 10 year old but deep down he's a sweet kid. I don't know maybe growing up with his father away is difficult for him.