I wouldn't encourage you to discard a 6 year relationship just because you are not having your oven warmed up as often as may be the norm. Of all the responders, Osakahoopline gives some of the most useful and constructive suggestions: communicate.
Jumping to conclusions like whether or not he is cheating, whether or not you should cheat or move on to another relationship wouldn't really be helpful. Many long-term relationships including marriages as well, often become less and less focused on sex. This is usually a natural process in which the couple has sex less frequently and refocuses their energies on other aspects of their relationship..their partnership. This is not to suggest that your sex life with him is over. No, it doesn't have to be.
I recommend you have that discussion with him. Then also discuss with him the feelings of disrespect you get from the treatment of his family. If it is fruitful and you determine that this is a relationship you want to salvage..then get to work! Check out this link (http://www.getromantic.com/passion/spice_up_sex/seduce_your_man.html) and this link (http://www.glamour.com/sex-love-life/2010/02/10-ways-to-seduce-your-man-in-seconds#slide=1) and this one (http://www.buzzle.com/articles/seducing-your-man-in-bed-and-out-of-it.html). If you feel that these are all a waste of time, then you may be contributing more to his distance than you realize.
Is my relationship Normal // Am I wasting my time?
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I wouldn't encourage you to discard a 6 year relationship just because you are not having your oven warmed up as often as may be the norm. Of all the responders, Osakahoopline gives some of the most useful and constructive suggestions: communicate.
Jumping to conclusions like whether or not he is cheating, whether or not you should cheat or move on to another relationship wouldn't really be helpful. Many long-term relationships including marriages as well, often become less and less focused on sex. This is usually a natural process in which the couple has sex less frequently and refocuses their energies on other aspects of their relationship..their partnership. This is not to suggest that your sex life with him is over. No, it doesn't have to be.
I recommend you have that discussion with him. Then also discuss with him the feelings of disrespect you get from the treatment of his family. If it is fruitful and you determine that this is a relationship you want to salvage..then get to work! Check out this link (http://www.getromantic.com/passion/spice_up_sex/seduce_your_man.html) and this link (http://www.glamour.com/sex-love-life/2010/02/10-ways-to-seduce-your-man-in-seconds#slide=1) and this one (http://www.buzzle.com/articles/seducing-your-man-in-bed-and-out-of-it.html). If you feel that these are all a waste of time, then you may be contributing more to his distance than you realize.
Best of luck to you!