Is my mom normal?

i think you havent given us enough background.. How old are you? How are the relaitionships between your mom and her husbend? And between all of you? Can you think of a risson shes not having fun? Generally, it sounds NOT normal, but it seems to me as a problem that can be solved with some counsling and understanding..

Your mom may have a mental health condition called anhedonia. People with anhedonia have trouble having fun and enjoying themselves. You should ask your mom to see a counselor.

no its not normal its almost the same thing with my mom i couldn't live with my moms ex any more because of how he would joke around saying that he put something in my plate of food when i was eating it and he thinks really sick shit is funny and i just couldn't trust him any more plus when i was sleeping on the coach i put my wallet in my shoe i had 3 dollars in my wallet and he just got pay $450.00 the other-day then stole 2 from my 3 that i had and i couldn't believe that he would do that to me but he did and i sure did tell my mom on him

and plus he fucked my moms only car up i fixed it and helped her sale it to get a new car & i told her you better put a lock on the hood or he will just mess that car up to she said i know and he kept flattening my moms car tires we caught him doing so it was him he will say around me and my real dad yeah I'll get you a car when really deep down in-side he don't want to he don't want my mom to have a ride he don't want her to have a job nether all he wants her to do is stay home and cook him some food & clean his house i always tell him why don't you cook your own food then he just laughs at me & all that he does when he gets off work is bitch like my uncle does every day

Dominican

ahh where are you from?

By the way i havent move because. He refuse the idea of me leaving by myself.

Am 20 for those of you who asked and searioudly i dont think am the reason why they dont get more intimate.. Their relationship Seems to me like a contract where she provides him with food and "everyting a woman issuppose to do" but sex and he is the one paying everything. ( her expences, mines and the house's). My relationship with him is not that good although he treats me like a father but he wants to control every single thing we do. The do not show any affection, they never go out or anything and havent seem them giving each other a simple kiss.

I'm with what randomjelly said. If you're staying in the same room as them, I doubt they're going to have sex. As for her not doing anything, or wanting to do anything, maybe she would rather live a simple life. You said you make a lot of suggestions for her to go to places that you like to go, but maybe instead of making suggestions, you should ask her if she has anything in mind. If she still doesn't want to do anything, you should ask her why she never wants to do anything. The worst could be that she has some kind of depression. Maybe you could recommend her talking with someone.

If my child slept in the same room I doubt I would feel very frisky either. Try the couch.