t's normal to have independent hobbies, but abnormal to indulge in them in a way that jeopardizes your marriage. And yes, to prefer video games to sex is very disturbing, if he truly feels that way. Try planning something fun to do together:watching a movie, making love, listening to music, etc and be very direct about what you want to do when you ask him to join you, try different options at different times and see what he accepts or rejects. Maybe he's weighing options (I.e., watching Friends reruns vs playing video games) and deciding that video games are better. At least if he's willing to our them aside for some activities, the next discussion can center around funding things that will both enjoy together and carving out time for those activities. If he chooses video games after you put on something sexy and very directly ask him to make love to you, you should seek couples. counseling
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t's normal to have independent hobbies, but abnormal to indulge in them in a way that jeopardizes your marriage. And yes, to prefer video games to sex is very disturbing, if he truly feels that way. Try planning something fun to do together:watching a movie, making love, listening to music, etc and be very direct about what you want to do when you ask him to join you, try different options at different times and see what he accepts or rejects. Maybe he's weighing options (I.e., watching Friends reruns vs playing video games) and deciding that video games are better. At least if he's willing to our them aside for some activities, the next discussion can center around funding things that will both enjoy together and carving out time for those activities. If he chooses video games after you put on something sexy and very directly ask him to make love to you, you should seek couples. counseling