Is my husbands libido normal?

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We met when I was 13 and he was 18. He says I am his first and he only had about 2 relationships prior to me with the most sexual thing being fingering and making out. Now I am 21 and he is 26. He's in jail right now for being a drunk, and has also been in jail for years periods in the past for selling weed. Is it normal that he can sustain so easily from jacking off and sex. Maybe because of a combination of being shy and having to be so exposed for 3 years made it a habit to not touch himself??..I would of never made it to 18 as a virgin.. and I can't go a week without touching myself or at least having a dirty idea.. but he is very disconnected and nonsexual very easily. I always have to pursue him We have 2 children.. he has had no problem preforming when he is with me we have loads of sex as much as possible, but yet it's so easy for him to just like stop cold turkey and not think more of it. Is this normal? I feel like this is backwards..like aren't men suppose to be sex crazed pigs? I've caught him looking at porn but he said he had never touched his self while looking at it. I find that puzzling. Give me some of your point of views on this situation? I feel like such a slut in comparison. Also I want to add this because I feel i must add it explains his character more uniquely Well I lied to him and told him I was 16 and about to turn 17 when I was 13 about to turn 14.. And he never found out my real age until I confessed when I was 15. By then we had already went there and fell in love. So we stay together, it is extremely important to point out boldly I've always considered him to be less intelligent then me and naive I never said that to him of course but.. If anything I'm the predator on him. I looked much older and acted much older. And always have.. I had bigger bust size back then then I do now. I fooled many men not just him. But back to him!!! Is he normal is it normal for a man to go without stimulation? Or is it undeniable that he's a pervert having wet dreams and jacking off whatever. Let me know am I naive to believe he's so... non sexual? is this impossible or just rare?

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  • Shroot
    9 years ago | pl

    I would bother reading this if there were paragraphs

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  • shuggy-chan
    9 years ago | pl

    so if a guy isnt some sexual deviant, you wonder if something is wrong with him?

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  • smsk03
    9 years ago | pl

    First off, the 13 to 18 doesn't sit well with me, even if you say he was tricked because kids still look like kids. And, just so you know, just because you want sex more than him it doesn't make you a 'slut.' That's demeaning, sexual thoughts and desires are normal and they keep you mentally healthy to maintain certain parts of your life. It's also a physical need that needs to be met. Don't put gender barriers to sex, men don't have to be thinking with their dicks all the time and women don't have to be ashamed for wanting sex. As for him not wanting to have sex could either be two things from my opinion. I don't mean to offend you when I say this, it's just my opinion. He might be a Pedophile. You and him got together when you were really young and even if you think he didn't notice, maybe subconsciously he had and that was his preference and now that you've become older he isn't attracted to you. This is just a thought. Or it could be that he was raped in jail since he's been there frequently. Maybe it's just depression or something simple, like he is not is the mood yet.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago | pl

    sex crazed pigs?

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