I'll probably be pounced on because I'm a man but I'm trying to be as un-biased as I can here so bare with me. A man wanting to stick his penis up a girls butt isn't with the intention of hurting her, so to turn around and demand that something be shoved up his butt for the sake of causing him pain is missing the point of sex entirely.
His penis feels good inside of your ass. Your banana has absolutely no sensation when inside his ass. How is that equal?
He wants to give you pleasure too. Anal sex isn't just a one-sided act, and it seems that a lot of women take offense to even being asked if they'd be willing to try it when the truth is when done right can be BETTER than vaginal intercourse.
Best advice I can offer if you want to keep things even and equal is get yourself some anal beads and both of you give them a try. If you both agree that it's uncomfortable then never mention it again. If you come to like how it feels maybe graduate to the real thing knowing it's not that bad and he at least was willing to try it too.
Anal beads, butt plugs and many other toys and lubricants exist in the most profitable industry in the world. I'd like to think they know what they are doing...
Is my husband being an asshole ?
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I'll probably be pounced on because I'm a man but I'm trying to be as un-biased as I can here so bare with me. A man wanting to stick his penis up a girls butt isn't with the intention of hurting her, so to turn around and demand that something be shoved up his butt for the sake of causing him pain is missing the point of sex entirely.
His penis feels good inside of your ass. Your banana has absolutely no sensation when inside his ass. How is that equal?
He wants to give you pleasure too. Anal sex isn't just a one-sided act, and it seems that a lot of women take offense to even being asked if they'd be willing to try it when the truth is when done right can be BETTER than vaginal intercourse.
Best advice I can offer if you want to keep things even and equal is get yourself some anal beads and both of you give them a try. If you both agree that it's uncomfortable then never mention it again. If you come to like how it feels maybe graduate to the real thing knowing it's not that bad and he at least was willing to try it too.
Anal beads, butt plugs and many other toys and lubricants exist in the most profitable industry in the world. I'd like to think they know what they are doing...